Stepson wants to live with us - can his mother stop him?

CH27

red_devil wrote: »

mothers make sacrifices when they have children, for a child to come along and say i prefer it at my dads byee is selfish to me.

So you expect a miserable child to stay with his mother & be unhappy just to make her happy?

red_devil

CH27 wrote: »

So you expect a miserable child to stay with his mother & be unhappy just to make her happy?

i give up, we dont know all the ins and outs anyway

Treevo

red_devil wrote: »

mothers make sacrifices when they have children, for a child to come along and say i prefer it at my dads byee is selfish to me.

Fathers don't?

Treevo

red_devil wrote: »

i give up, we dont know all the ins and outs anyway

We know the child is miserable and wants to live with his dad. The child is who matters.

red_devil

Treevo wrote: »

Fathers don't?

did the father leave the marriage?

if so he is the one that split the home in the first place?

red_devil

:A

Treevo wrote: »

We know the child is miserable and wants to live with his dad. The child is who matters.

yes whatever you say :T

Mojisola

red_devil wrote: »

did the father leave the marriage?

if so he is the one that split the home in the first place?

That doesn't matter as far as the child is concerned otherwise there's a lot of mothers out there who had affairs who wouldn't now have care of their children.

Treevo

red_devil wrote: »

did the father leave the marriage?

if so he is the one that split the home in the first place?

We don't know that but it doesn't matter.

Treevo

red_devil wrote: »

:A

yes whatever you say :T

Actually that's what the child says (via the OP).

Unless you mean that the child isn't more important, and then I begin to wonder what kind of a mother you are.

peachyprice

red_devil wrote: »

did the father leave the marriage?

if so he is the one that split the home in the first place?

Or did the mother chuck him out because the was having it away with the postman?

It's all irrelevant, parenting is a joint venture not something only a mother does best.

Somebody sent me this the other day, sadly it's only too true.
http://www.shrink4men.com/2011/05/17/does-your-wife-or-ex-wife-have-a-golden-uterus-complex-15-characteristics-of-the-golden-uterus/