Can you wear black to a wedding?

aliasojo

lostinrates wrote: »

(Btw, just realised, you said earlier you had good tits ....

No I didn't....I said I had big ones. :rotfl:

aliasojo

Right who ordered the same dress as me but the bigger size???? Fess up....cos it's no longer in stock so I can't order it so see if a bigger size would have been better or not. :rotfl:

aliasojo

What about separates...can't I just wear a skirt and a top/blouse thing?

lostinrates

aliasojo wrote: »

No I didn't....I said I had big ones. :rotfl:

Now, here's the thing.

When I first got sick and know one knew what was wrong with me one of the weirdest symptoms was I put on a lot of weight. Fast. Some weeks I put on a stone or so.

I was devastated and scared.

My husband (he wasn't my husband then) just looked at my tits and grinned.

To many bigger in that dept is better. Now, I am not saying that's right, ( think all sizes can be perfect in the breast dept.) but I think on you in a dress, they deserve to be treated with respect, don't you?

Saint_Chris

Hi

just been reading a bit of this thread.

I've just spent ages looking for a dress for a wedding, and I bought this.

http://www.clothingattesco.com/dresses/f+f-belted-lace-overlay-dress/invt/bd321176/&bklist=icat,4,shop,catgwomens,womens-dresses


It looked lovely, and I teamed it with black shoes, fascinator and bag, and got a gold pashmina just incast it went nippy. It has a small belt with it, which I kept on but just didn't fasten to tight.

I'm a 14/16 with a belly and always struggle to find dresses.

but this one is like a stretchy fabric, I got it in a 16, and I wore it with my beloved spanx, and didn't feel to big in it.

lostinrates

aliasojo wrote: »

What about separates...can't I just wear a skirt and a top/blouse thing?

YES, you can wear separates.

Dunroamin

Is there a reason it has to be a dress - could you be looking at a suit or two piece outfit?

ETA

For once I seem to be on the right lines!

aliasojo

lostinrates wrote: »

....... but I think on you in a dress, they deserve to be treated with respect, don't you?

Noooooo....I don't like mine, I want small perky ones. :rotfl:

Btw, with regards to dress shape/style....this is kinda the best shape for me. It makes me look taller and skims over waist etc.

http://www.simplybe.co.uk/shop/changes-by-together-lace-detail-dress/oz753/product/details/show.action?pdBoUid=7848#colour:Violet,size:


Things with actual waistbands are not good, nor are fitted styles.

Battleaxe44

http://www.jacques-vert.co.uk/en/occasion-wear/wedding-outfits/#http%3A%2F%2Fwww.jacques-vert.co.uk%2Fwebapp%2Fwcs%2Fstores%2Fservlet%2FCategoryOnlyResultsDisplayView%3FcatalogId%3D10101%26categoryId%3D51176%26langId%3D44%26storeId%3D10151%26identifier%3D1376153503155

I love the Violet dress

balletshoes

aliasojo wrote: »

What about separates...can't I just wear a skirt and a top/blouse thing?

yes you can (and remember, I'm also in favour of you wearing a smart pair of trousers ).