To text or not to text? That is the question

VitaK

Silly dating rules. All they do is make you think to much and complicate things.

Having assurance that your date turns up is only natural.

DUTR

ifstar wrote: »

I wouldn't leave it too late or he might be thinking the same and make other plans.

justme111 wrote: »

If he did he would have.made sure she is in no doubt. So preferable to go straight with anotherone that does

Not in the 21st century of equal rights n all that, post #19 has got it spot on, as a guy I can tell you it gets tiring chasing day in day out, sometimes it is fine and appreciated for the lady to take the initiative.
What has the OP got to lose rather than a text out of her allowance, nothing in comarison to 'stressing' over if the date is going to occur or not.

MrsE_2

toffeentom wrote: »

Thanks everyone - think I'm going to go with the still on for tomorrow approach - I'll let you know if it's on or if I'm rejected!! Think I may leave it till a bit later - after wine o'clock. Dutch courage

Just a thought, did you get a cheap mobile with a PAYG sim for this?
You're not giving them your real regular mobile number are you?

toffee'n'tom

Well - message sent and just been rejected! Just an I don't think so! Had so many knocks recently think I'll just enjoy my own company for a while.

thanks again

MrsE_2

toffeentom wrote: »

Well - message sent and just been rejected! Just an I don't think so! Had so many knocks recently think I'll just enjoy my own company for a while.

thanks again

He rejected you or text was rejected?

VitaK

Thats an horrible way of saying it. He should be ashamed.

toffee'n'tom

MrsE wrote: »

He rejected you or text was rejected?

I was rejected - had a text back within minutes just saying 'don't think so (and my name)

justme111

DUTR wrote: »

What has the OP got to lose rather than a text out of her allowance, nothing in comarison to 'stressing' over if the date is going to occur or not.

You misunderstood me. She should not been stressing. Se should take it as the date is not happening and made other plans.

DUTR

toffeentom wrote: »

I was rejected - had a text back within minutes just saying 'don't think so (and my name)

Hugs to you, at least you know now, and learned early on that the guy lacked tack and is prolly a w*nker .:o

DUTR

justme111 wrote: »

You misunderstood me. She should not been stressing. Se should take it as the date is not happening and made other plans.

I know she shouldn't but either gender would be 'stressing' to a degree, I'm sure many of us have had that rain check, but it's less annoying than the ones that pull out at the 11th hour time and time again.