Married 3 months ,husband just told me he is bisexual help!!

tracytaxi

Hi NO to dressing up as a man ,fixed term end November and don't really want to movebbut explaining to landlord would be interesting

tracytaxi

I do love him and he loves me ,I know the practical reasons are not enough to have a marriage ,and yes pechow he does make an alternative effort

aileth

I have to add as well, if my husband struggled to get it up, then had no sex three months post-marriage and then he comes out as apparently 'bisexual', my alarm would be sounding incredibly loud. His ex-wifes cheated on him, but he thinks it's ok to cheat on you with other men because he's 'experimenting.'

You deserve so much more than this.

Pechow

tracytaxi: That's good to hear, and for me points more towards him telling the truth about his bisexuality and all the other issues causing the bedroom problems. If he were gay surely he wouldn't initiate like you said he does, or bother with trying other things. Though, has he offered to do any of that since you got married, or did that stop too?

Hopefully he'll be open to talking and seeing professionals as well. You do still need to talk about the chat rooms and such if you haven't already, and see where things go from there first.

tracytaxi

He offers other things since we got married he has told me exactly and I mean exactly what he feels about men and he has just said he is trying to work out if he can just have it as fantasy or whether it will be more ,and that's something only he can decide and face the consequences of . right off now taking daughter out to celebrate getting on a new college course and she is autistic so proud of her

System

living in a sexless marriage? Its better than being a battered wife with sex like I once was! Counselling for both of us I think, trouble is the break up and fall out if it came down to it would all be on my own, my mother even thought I shouldn't of divorced my violent ex, and because my last husband cheated it was my fault for being over weight size 20

Oh love you sound as screwed up as he is! You don't have to believe everything your Mother says you know. Parents aren't always right.

tracytaxi

I don't say I believe what my mum says Judi ,it just hurts ,and hurts

beckysbobbles1

Dear lord what an absolute sham of a marriage.

People really don't take their marriage vows seriously.

I personally could not live a lie knwoing my husband really wanted to get with other people. Regardless whether they were of the same sex or not.

Talking to other people in a chat room can lead to meeting up and you know where it'll go from there.

System

I know.:(

Taking out your family and friends out of the equation. What do you want out of your life and marriage?

tracytaxi

I just want to be happy ! I want my hubby to tell me the truth , always and love me and be faithful ,will that happen and can I live with it