Married 3 months ,husband just told me he is bisexual help!!

tracytaxi

How do I identify a board guide ? Sorry

Torry_Quine

tracytaxi wrote: »

How do I identify a board guide ? Sorry

Names are at the bottom of the main page for the board.

eschaton

OP - you maybe jump from marriage to marriage too quick and your OH too for that matter if he is up to number 4 already.

In my mind, getting married is a big committment and something that should be viewed as being for life all going well.

When you get married continually then there can't be anything special about that other than it being a status.

I could have been married at anytime during a recently ended 7 year relationship and I didn't because I knew it would probably have ended in divorce or more likely financial disaster as well.

If your latest marriage does end, don't rush into the next one as there is no need. Also try and find someone who can get out and work instead of needing your care as a carer as that's no life. Find someone who can give you some fun in life again and contribute financially.

shaz77_2

eschaton wrote: »

OP - you maybe jump from marriage to marriage too quick and your OH too for that matter if he is up to number 4 already.

In my mind, getting married is a big committment and something that should be viewed as being for life all going well.

When you get married continually then there can't be anything special about that other than it being a status.

I could have been married at anytime during a recently ended 7 year relationship and I didn't because I knew it would probably have ended in divorce or more likely financial disaster as well.

If your latest marriage does end, don't rush into the next one as there is no need. Also try and find someone who can get out and work instead of needing your care as a carer as that's no life. Find someone who can give you some fun in life again and contribute financially.

How can you stay with someone for seven years, always knowing it was going to end?

eschaton

shaz77 wrote: »

How can you stay with someone for seven years, always knowing it was going to end?

It wasn't a guarantee but due to outside influences and other issues, not unexpected.

Anyway, someone elses thread isn't the place to talk about something else.

shaz77_2

eschaton wrote: »

It wasn't a guarantee but due to outside influences and other issues, not unexpected.

Anyway, someone elses thread isn't the place to talk about something else.

I do feel for you but at least you're out of it now - look after yourself.

tracytaxi

I was with husband one for three years before we married ,before the birth of our daughter ,less than a year after marriage he beat and he did for three years until I left him because he went to lash out at kids ,I was then alone for five years before I dated my sons dad ,we then married after five years ,this to my new hubby was the quickest I had ever married ,no children of the relationship to cloud it ,I married him as I loved. Him totally and utterly and still do

tracytaxi

Oh and u don't pick your partner based on earning ability ,or health ,hubby two was working when. I met him but became ill and surely in a loving marriage you do look after each other ,my current husband has bad vascular disease and heart problems and he had applied for jobs but to no avail as yet and as for nothing special about being married continually being a status ,when you have children I am old fashioned enough to believe they are part of the that status ,! I don't give a toss about status I would just like to be loved and appreciated and my husband does this apart from this event