Married 3 months ,husband just told me he is bisexual help!!

FatVonD

Panda78 wrote: »

The missionary position is more about hiding his feelings than just indicating he is gay. Perhaps people think this imitates gay sex more,

I don't think it's so much that it imitates @n@l sex, or even that it avoids eye contact/looking at the face, as that from that position breasts aren't seen so the form doesn't look so female.

elsien

tracytaxi wrote: »

By the way I have to try to answer everyone as it would be rude not to

I wouldn't worry about that - if someone's post is something that's already been said, answering it again is probably one of the things that's making your head go round in circles.
You've got enough on your plate without having to think about the feelings of some random strangers on an Internet forum. The nice people will understand, and any that don't, don't matter.

lostinrates

tracytaxi wrote: »

Hi yes I was going to close the thread but some people asked me not to ,thanks for your help everyone will ask moderators to close it at three today

Do what suits you, for goodness sake!

People here should be the least of your concern really

braun_2

Some of the comments on this thread are truly shocking. Encouraging a divorce especially.

Just because a man is bi-sexual, does not mean he cannot love a woman, be committed and monogamous with a woman, have children and raise a family with a woman.

Also this may shock some people, but most men like looking at !!!!!!, they will also want to try what they see in the bedroom. Missionary position is not 'glamorous' or sexy and I'm sure will be at the bottom of most men's favourite positions. Do you think men sit in the pub bragging how they 'did this bird missionary last night' ?

If OP married this guy 3 months ago then I'm assuming she loves him completely. In terms of finance and responsibility it sounds like he needs to be named on half of the bills and get a jobs ASAP.

shop-to-drop

Dimey wrote: »

In which case Coolcat's solution, post 200, is a good solution.
Ask your husband to pay for the annulment. If he doesn't have savings then ask him to get a loan for it. Not you. That's the least he can do.

Agreed, if he does this that is the first step in him putting things right.

shaz77_2

braun wrote: »

Some of the comments on this thread are truly shocking. Encouraging a divorce especially.

Just because a man is bi-sexual, does not mean he cannot love a woman, be committed and monogamous with a woman, have children and raise a family with a woman.

Also this may shock some people, but most men like looking at !!!!!!, they will also want to try what they see in the bedroom. Missionary position is not 'glamorous' or sexy and I'm sure will be at the bottom of most men's favourite positions. Do you think men sit in the pub bragging how they 'did this bird missionary last night' ?

If OP married this guy 3 months ago then I'm assuming she loves him completely. In terms of finance and responsibility it sounds like he needs to be named on half of the bills and get a jobs ASAP.

Have you actually read the thread, her husband wants to get out and about experimenting.

Calien27

@braun

Whilst I'm sure many men aren't all "woo hoo I did the Mrs missionary style last night" followed by high fives, wanting to do it doggy all the time isn't exactly the norm.

Men do like to be tender too, and missionary is usually the number one position for it. If my partner insisted on doggy all the time, I'd wonder what was wrong with me, why he doesn't want to see my face etc.

shaz77_2

Ok I think this thread is bogus setup as a prank or just to have a dig at her current boyfriend:

1. Husband is self centered.
2. Likes !!!!!!
3. Wants to have an open relationship
4. Failed marriages
5. Deceitful
6. Bad in bed
7. and now he is not well endowed.

Gee I'm an idiot.

tracytaxi

Hi hubby expressed as desire to go with a man but said he wouldn't because he loves me ,if he had admitted to himself earlier in life he was bisexual than probably he would of already had a relationship or experience with a man , but he never has , and the fantasy builds like someone desiring a new top of the range phone or a far flung holiday and when they get it ,it isn't always what they want , or liking chocolate but being allergic and they know if they eat it they will be ill so they don't no matter how much they desire it .Thats the place husband is right now ,he definite should of told me before we married ,so now it's like he's looking at pictures and videos of chocolate but won't have it unless the dr says it is ok as he doesn't want to be ill ! Can u understand the comparison ? He loves me an awful alot ,I can arouse him also ,he loves kissing me ,etc just it was a shock to find out he was bisexual and was also aroused looking at men

tracytaxi

Good grief a bogus post well am I glad your not my friend ! I have poured my heart out on here and a regular member since 2008 and I love my husband if I didn't it wouldn't bloody hurt so much ! I am beginning to wonder if its worth me waking up in the morning ! Decided to tell my mum today and she said its my fault and now you who doesn't even know me says that ,I feel as low as I can and don't need remarks like that ,although I appreciate its a free country , feeling destroyed