Affair, can't forget

waccoe_2

scooby088 wrote: »

And with your wife making nasty comments, I guess here that those will not stop because they are on holiday! So maybe not a good holiday for the OP.

Don't you worry yourself Scooby, I am a big boy, I can look after myself. I am in a very positive place at the moment.

kelpie35

waccoe wrote: »

Don't you worry yourself Scooby, I am a big boy, I can look after myself. I am in a very positive place at the moment.

That is excellent news :j

Hope you are able to relax and come back to let us know your decision.

Take care

Pixiechic

Have a good holiday Waccoe and I hope that it all works out well for you.

poet123

waccoe wrote: »

Don't you worry yourself Scooby, I am a big boy, I can look after myself. I am in a very positive place at the moment.

I think that comes through now in your posts. I am glad you are talking time to reflect on what is a decision with far reaching and long term consequences. A very personal decision, which you cannot allow others, be they members of this forum or professionals, to overly influence you in making; they do not know the nuances of your relationship and even well meaning advice could be way off beam.

Sort the wheat from the chaff, what is the small stuff, what is the big stuff, what really matters now, what will still matter or matter more in 10 years, what won't. Weigh the outcomes and move forward as it suits you and your family.

I hope you manage to have a relaxing break.

waccoe_2

poet123 wrote: »

I think that comes through now in your posts. I am glad you are talking time to reflect on what is a decision with far reaching and long term consequences. A very personal decision, which you cannot allow others, be they members of this forum or professionals, to overly influence you in making; they do not know the nuances of your relationship and even well meaning advice could be way off beam.

Sort the wheat from the chaff, what is the small stuff, what is the big stuff, what really matters now, what will still matter or matter more in 10 years, what won't. Weigh the outcomes and move forward as it suits you and your family.

I hope you manage to have a relaxing break.

I still don't know where this journey is going but I feel more confident and in control than when I first started it.

marisco_2

waccoe wrote: »

I still don't know where this journey is going but I feel more confident and in control than when I first started it.

Remember how far you have come, not just how far you have to go on this journey. You may not be where you eventually hope to be yet. I feel you are in a much better place from where you were when you started this thread though. A lot of that is down to you seeking the help, guidance and support that you needed. I hope the skills and knowledge you have gained will enable you to move forward positively in which ever direction feels right for you.

June_Cambridge

Hi Waccoe, we haven't heard from you since you got back from your holiday, could you let us know if you are ok?

Pixiechic

I was wondering how you got on on your hols too.

You okay?

kelpie35

Hope you are ok waccoe.

Did you enjoy your holiday, and have you decided which road you are taking?

Wol2

Sending hugs

Please come and update us when/if it feels right for you.

xxxxx