My husbeast is a cretin

neverdespairgirl

Scorpio33 wrote: »

So where are these places that women walk around just in there bra and knickers?

Beaches? Swimming pools?

Joons

VestanPance wrote: »

I didn't say it wasn't difficult. I said I don't find it sexy. That's two very different things.

Fair enough.

Tropez

Joons wrote: »

Your point made me think about a young girl I saw on my way to work this morning, she had a pair of shorts on, so short you actually saw the bottom half of her bum cheeks, disgusting but she was happily striding along, if I was staring, god knows what men were doing!!!

I can imagine what some men were doing... with their camera phones... for later....

It might sound odd but while I notice people who wear so very little out and about during the day to day, I don't tend to pay them any attention. The only thought that tends to pass my mind, regardless of whether or not they're attractive, is whether they actually know they've got stuff showing.

VestanPance

Scorpio33 wrote: »

So where are these places that women walk around just in there bra and knickers?

So it's sexual power you seek then? A women using the power of her sexuality to extort money from the man, and the man using the power of money to be pleasured by viewing flesh.

Women do not need to be parading around in their underwear to be sexy. I would find it a depressing thought if they thought they did.

Although I've often been bemused that some guys go for the vulgar looking Jordan types in revealing clothes. It's something I'll never understand how people can think that is an attractive look.

Joons

Tropez wrote: »

I can imagine what some men were doing... with their camera phones... for later....

It might sound odd but while I notice people who wear so very little out and about during the day to day, I don't tend to pay them any attention. The only thought that tends to pass my mind, regardless of whether or not they're attractive, is whether they actually know they've got stuff showing.

I'm astounded at what I see some females wearing and I'm not being a prude but do you really want men who you don't find attractive at all, drooling at your !!!!???

It wasn't so much a pair of shorts, it was more like a very teeny weeny hanky.

Tropez

Joons wrote: »

I'm astounded at what I see some females wearing and I'm not being a prude but do you really want men who you don't find attractive at all, drooling at your !!!!???

It wasn't so much a pair of shorts, it was more like a very teeny weeny hanky.

Well indeed! They should be working at strip clubs... same sort of exhibitionism but with money for it!

gazzak_2

I've been to strip clubs twice, both for stag do's, and I was bored senseless within 10 minutes. Everything about them is so fake, and you're overcharged for warm beer and not allowed to move from your seat except to use the loo. It's a very plastic and utterly boring experience. To be honest I'd rather see the legal secretaries walking down Kingsway on a sunny morning than anything in a strip club.

Also, answer me this. Why do the blokes on a topless beach spend most of their time looking at a woman who has a small vest on rather than the ones who are topless?

Joons

gazzak wrote: »

I've been to strip clubs twice, both for stag do's, and I was bored senseless within 10 minutes. Everything about them is so fake, and you're overcharged for warm beer and not allowed to move from your seat except to use the loo. It's a very plastic and utterly boring experience. To be honest I'd rather see the legal secretaries walking down Kingsway on a sunny morning than anything in a strip club.

Also, answer me this. Why do the blokes on a topless beach spend most of their time looking at a woman who has a small vest on rather than the ones who are topless?

Because men like to be tantalised, not have it stuffed in their face? It's like these celebrities with their fake boobs and fake everything else, that Rhianna for one, she just can't keep her clothes on, eventually you become desensitised to it.

I take your point re the lap clubs, funny.

rochja

Back to the OP's original problem. Now she has spotted facebook as a means for him to communicate his more carnal desires it is to be hoped he doesn't take a lesson from 'Ello Ello' and get himself a long distance duck

POPPYOSCAR

[QUOTE=Joons;60710461]Because men like to be tantalised, not have it stuffed in their face? It's like these celebrities with their fake boobs and fake everything else, that Rhianna for one, she just can't keep her clothes on, eventually you become desensitised to it.

I take your point re the lap clubs, funny.[/QUOTE]


Yes they do.

But some men only like to be tantalised by their partner and not some stranger.