My husbeast is a cretin

mumonashoestring

I've been up since 4am settling our baby back to sleep after a very disturbed night and the first thing I see on Facebook this morning?

(Husbeast) has commented on (some girl who he's met through a sci fi forum)'s photo:

" I have a new favourite picture of you ♥ Lucky for you we're on different continents "

:mad:

Person_one

Yuk, sorry about that. I thought your subject title was a bit strong until I read it, but, yeah.

tru

Yes, definitely a cretin.

I don't know what else to say, except I'm furious on your behalf :mad:

fluffnutter

What a nob. Have you spoken to him about it?

mumonashoestring

fluffnutter wrote: »

What a nob. Have you spoken to him about it?

No, he'd just left for work when I saw it.

I have left a reply on there to the effect that if she wants him I'll happily FedEx him to her.

Probably without airholes in the box, mind...

gingin_2

mumonashoestring wrote: »

(Husbeast) has commented on (some girl who he's met through a sci fi forum)'s photo:



:mad:

She is probably a 20 stone trucker named Bob but I admire your humour in all this.

marisco_2

I am very sorry to hear this news OP.

What a horrible shock it must have been for you to have found this vile correspondence. Your husband has treated you with total contempt and betrayed you by his actions. That is a really cold and callous thing to do. On a forum like facebook to boot, so he has made all this public too. I dont blame you for feeling devestated by this and extremely let down.

I realise that you two have a young baby but if I were in your shoes I would be thinking that this was a man I could not be in a relationship with any more. He has really let you and your child down and shown little regards for your feelings. You dont do any of those things to a person you love, value, trust and respect.

You deserve to be treated far better.

snozberry

I would shove whichever devise he used to make *that* comment where the sun doesn't shine.

New_Day

mumonashoestring wrote: »

I've been up since 4am settling our baby back to sleep after a very disturbed night and the first thing I see on Facebook this morning?

(Husbeast) has commented on (some girl who he's met through a sci fi forum)'s photo:

" I have a new favourite picture of you ♥ Lucky for you we're on different continents "

:mad:

Are we married to the same man? Is she from Brazil?

My DH (?) was getting very friendly with a lady he met on some on-line game. He added her on FB and they kept commenting on each others photos. I found it irritating to say the least and eventually asked for his password to look at his PMs. Lots of intimate chat (nothing sexual though) but what got me was when he said 'I will always be here for you'. Shame he couldn't say those words to me in the last 10 months whilst I have been nursing my 19 year old (his SD) through cancer!

He says I am over-reacting but I have asked him to move out. I need all my emotional energy for my DD.

Only you can decide what's right for you OP, but trust your instincts and good luck. x

tru

snozberry wrote: »

I would shove whichever devise he used to make *that* comment where the sun doesn't shine.

That ^

Hopefully he didn't use a mobile, with rounded edges. Let's hope it was a full-size PC, with sharp corners.

Funky_Bold_Ribena

Surely you mean, soon to be ex-husbeast?