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My husbeast is a cretin

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  • peachyprice
    peachyprice Posts: 22,346 Forumite
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    What an ahole



    And I'm not just talking about the husband ;)
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  • thorsoak
    thorsoak Posts: 7,166 Forumite
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    edited 15 April 2013 at 9:33AM
    gazzak wrote: »
    You're over-reacting. It's nothing.

    You wouldn't, by any chance, be a male, would you?
  • Lara44
    Lara44 Posts: 2,961 Forumite
    Sorry OP, that was a terrible thing for your OH to do. But your suggestion to FedEx him over did make me laugh on this gloomy morning!
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  • I think he's just been a bit of an idiot. If there was anything meant by it he'd have sent a private message.

    I am very glad to hear he has apologised, OP!

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  • *max*
    *max* Posts: 3,208 Forumite
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    Well done for retaining your sense of humour! Hopefully he'll have learned his lesson. :p I hope you manage to put your feet up today OP!
  • lemontart
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    gazzak wrote: »
    You're over-reacting. It's nothing.

    Unwritten rule Husbeast has obviously forgotten - do not been seen to be showing your basic instincts as the male of the species your lustful. thoughts on any other female than that you are with.

    Reason - loss of brownie points, looking like a "cretin" in this case and a bad back as you may end up on the couch tonight. Also risk to bank balance as you try to reclaim lost brownie points.


    All men look and think things about other people - normal but most are discreet shall we say and not the least bit overt or obvious basically for the above reasons for the most.

    I dated a chap many years ago who's head would turn, jaw drop and would positively salivate at times even in the presence of my self or said target of this behaviour's partner. I used to just hand in a tissue and tell him to stop acting like a spotty teenager - he was lucky he did not get a slap from one the women's partners. None the less I found it annoying.

    But boot on other foot, yes I look and enjoy the view at times to the point I very nearly had car accident when distracted by a man;s rear as he leant into his van - difference I was alone and he was my boyfriend.
    I am responsible me, myself and I alone I am not the keeper others thoughts and words.
  • PHARR
    PHARR Posts: 405 Forumite
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    What an idiot.

    Facebook - created to ruin peoples lives. Thanks Mark Zuckerberg.

    Social networking is turning for the worst.
    Better to understand a little than to misunderstand a lot.
  • Paddy_H wrote: »
    What an idiot.

    Facebook - created to ruin peoples lives. Thanks Mark Zuckerberg.

    Social networking is turning for the worst.
    It's just another way for stupid people to say stupid things. It use to be the pub, now the entire world can see what a moron people can be.

    (And why wasn't your husbeast up helping you with the baby at night?)
  • lostinrates
    lostinrates Posts: 55,283 Forumite
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    thorsoak wrote: »
    You would'nt, by any chance, be a male, would you?

    You know, I don't think most of my male friends would make this mistake either, they might say something while their wives/girlfriends were there and they were holding hands and clearly just engaging in 'charming' banter, but not on that way I think.

    Hope you get a decent rest today and that's busbeast makes it up to you later.
  • Bazey
    Bazey Posts: 8,230 Forumite
    Your husband sounds like a !!!!!!, and as for the lady involved, what a brazen hussy. I wouldn't mind seeing a photo of her so I can fully make my mind up...
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