Punishments for nasty bullying behaviour from a 14 y/o?

bigmaz

delain wrote: »

Well your thread in DT already demonstrates your complete lack of understanding of life and families in general.

I live in the real world I am afraid with real life experiences. I dont just say what I hear from other people and blank the fact these things happen and live in a bubble...... Anyway, please dont bring this onto someone elses thread

bigmaz

Joons wrote: »

A 14 year is a child, that's a fact, they are not young adults.

Lol, who made it a fact?

pigpen

duchy wrote: »

My concern would be nipping it in the bud as teenagers with Aspergers have poor appreciation of "place and people appropriate"

This is what I was trying to do when I asked for ideas for punishments/consequences.. but it diversified as these things do.

Please tell me as someone who lives with this you have something helpful to add?

Joons

bigmaz wrote: »

Lol, who made it a fact?

So you actually believe a 14 year old is a young adult?

Ok, let's agree to disagree then.

delain

bigmaz wrote: »

I live in the real world I am afraid with real life experiences. I dont just say what I hear from other people and blank the fact these things happen and live in a bubble...... Anyway, please dont bring this onto someone elses thread

Are you saying I do?

I have ASD children. I do know what I'm on about.

Person_one

pigpen wrote: »

We have 4 PCSO's in this area (I always want to call them C3PO's lol) 1 on long term sick, 1 on maternity leave and 2 doing the work of 4.. I think they have enough to deal with in the form of drunks, shoplifters, car crime etc in this area. They go into school so we know a couple of them and they also have updates in the newssheets from the community wardens.

Couldn't hurt to ask, could it? Worst that can happen is they say they can't.

There might be more of them than you realise, too.

Person_one

delain wrote: »

Are you saying I do?

I have ASD children. I do know what I'm on about.

No two ASD children are the same though, they don't all display the same behaviours and there's no one way to deal with all of them that always works.

The person in my family who has Asperger's wouldn't say boo to a goose, the violence isn't necessarily due to him being on the spectrum.

bigmaz

Joons wrote: »

So you actually believe a 14 year old is a young adult?

Ok, let's agree to disagree then.

Anyway who cares? Your getting desperate here. The fact is, the damage a 14 year old can do punching a 10 year old girl full force is severe.... And no matter how many technicalities you want to throw at it wont make it any different

gingin_2

pigpen wrote: »

We have 4 PCSO's in this area (I always want to call them C3PO's lol) 1 on long term sick, 1 on maternity leave and 2 doing the work of 4.. I think they have enough to deal with in the form of drunks, shoplifters, car crime etc in this area. They go into school so we know a couple of them and they also have updates in the newssheets from the community wardens.

I'm one of those people who tends to look at the good in things and I believe that it might be a welcome diversion for them, from the drudgery of dealing with the above. It's actually something that might get a positive result and I think you might be surprised. I could, of course, be wrong but I tend to think there's no harm in trying. From my experience, they are very keen to help with small issues within the community.

bigmaz

delain wrote: »

Are you saying I do?

I have ASD children. I do know what I'm on about.

What does ASD have to do with what you were reffering to on my other thread? My god..... Does everyone just want an argument on here??