Punishments for nasty bullying behaviour from a 14 y/o?

Joons

I honestly wonder about the knowledge of some folk posting on here, have they been to a city comprehensive lately or spent time on a school bus, kids can be nasty and do fight.

I'm satisfied that Pigpen is enough of a deterrent for her son to not repeat his unacceptable behaviour, all this talk of getting the Police involved is just not needed, seriously, I can't imagine what they would have thought every time my mother called them to say, oh that's Pauline punched June, oh, wait a minute, that's June punched Pauline, she'd end up getting done for wasting Police time!

Joons

bigmaz wrote: »

Man punched her in the stomach?

We did a lot worse than that to each other!

j.e.j.

gazzak wrote: »

So lets get this straight, (without the excuses please), your Son punched your young disabled Daughter as hard as he could in the stomach, and broke the nose of a girl at school?

You need serious professional help NOW.

I can see this thread going on and on.. but anyway, from what I can gather the former was unprovoked and OP is dealing with it, and the latter was self-defense.

bigmaz

gazzak wrote: »

So lets get this straight, (without the excuses please), your Son punched your young disabled Daughter as hard as he could in the stomach, and broke the nose of a girl at school?

You need serious professional help NOW.

If what Pigpen says about why he done it, then I dont think he should be hounded for that one, I dont car if its girls, he was defending himself.

gingin_2

Joons wrote: »

I'm satisfied that Pigpen is enough of a deterrent for her son to not repeat his unacceptable behaviour

Phew! Well, that's good then, thread closed. No need to continue!

Joons

I remember in School boys fighting and I mean fighting, they would hold one up and actually kick each other in the head repeatedly, this was a catholic school and it would have been about primary 5 or 6. This was 30 years ago.

bigmaz

Joons wrote: »

We did a lot worse than that to each other!

Na, I am sorry, but thats not right. Theres fighting with bro's and sis's, but thats a step too far a man punch to the stomach. I know you think thats normal, but I was brought up to know that was out of order. I am by no means a goody goody, always up to mischeif but not anything like that, sorry.

Joons

gingin wrote: »

Phew! Well, that's good then, thread closed. No need to continue!

So now I'm not allowed to express MY opinion, dearie me....:rotfl:

Joons

bigmaz wrote: »

Na, I am sorry, but thats not right. Theres fighting with bro's and sis's, but thats a step too far a man punch to the stomach. I know you think thats normal, but I was brought up to know that was out of order. I am by no means a goody goody, always up to mischeif but not anything like that, sorry.

I have four brothers and I don't remember them fighting once yet myself and my sister were always at each other.

I definitely don't think it's right but I can assure you we were, and are, both normal.

bigmaz

Joons wrote: »

I remember in School boys fighting and I mean fighting, they would hold one up and actually kick each other in the head repeatedly, this was a catholic school and it would have been about primary 5 or 6. This was 30 years ago.

There is a difference between boys hitting other boys the same age, and a 14 year old boy/young man hitting a 10 year old girl full force in the stomach