Affair?

Funky_Bold_Ribena

alleycat` wrote: »

It's also a good idea to not get wound up into 2+2 = 57
This is a forum, you are detached from what is really happening and you are seeing one persons view of a story.

You might be right, you might be wrong but asking someone to destroy their relationship based on upset feelings and a small amount of narrative is a bit full on.

She asked MSE remember? I'm not asking her anything...I couldn't give a monkey's. What I'm saying is he's done all the right things and said all the right things and what person wouldn't? What a top result for him.

alleycat`

Funky_Bold_Ribena wrote: »

She asked MSE remember? I'm not asking her anything...I couldn't give a monkey's. What I'm saying is he's done all the right things and said all the right things and what person wouldn't? What a top result for him.

Possibly, or he just told the truth.
I don't know which it is. How it looks is irrelevant to me.

A lot of the responses on here make it look like he is taking the OP for a mug when the reality is none of us know for a fact what is going on.

bryanb

alleycat` wrote: »

A lot of the responses on here make it look like he is taking the OP for a mug when the reality is none of us know for a fact what is going on.

Reality is that there are all the classic signs of an affair, my advice is given on that basis!

Joons

alleycat` wrote: »

Possibly, or he just told the truth.
I don't know which it is. How it looks is irrelevant to me.

A lot of the responses on here make it look like he is taking the OP for a mug when the reality is none of us know for a fact what is going on.

I agree, this is one person's view so you don't ever know the full story, it's impossible. Some very nasty posts here, thankfully the OP has enough sense to make up her own mind, I also think a lot of responses are definitely biased due to the fact it's been done to them.

scooby088

Well signs are what OP's husbands shift times jotted down on a piece of paper, happens to say I love you with a big heart on in! going to the toilet with his phone, so going on the toilet with a newspaper means your lusting after page 3. What actual evidence is there? nothing apart from things that can easily be explained by many avenues.

Everyone jumps on the affair bandwagon from only reading one side of the story. There are alot of supposing here and it's upto the OP how she decides to handle the situation.