meeting husbands female friend!

Babysoft

Whatever you do please come back and tell us how it all went. Love and hugs for you honey X

niccy

good for the goose good for the gander.I'll send you some "flirty messages" and see how your hubby likes it:D .Put a stop to it girl, cos as a man i can tell you she might be messing but he might be getting the wrong message:rolleyes: It could be to late if your not careful. Put loads of pressure on him now, (me or her) and dont let her come to the bbq.Nip this in the bud.Too right your jealous, so would he be if you invited me to your bbq:D

men are ruled by whats in their trousers

but i've met quite a few woman who don't give a stuff about "the wife and kids "

SoozieSoo

vik6525 wrote: »

What if he did those things with another man? like one of his male friends?

Honestly? I would be slightly worried about his sexuality. I don't know many straight men who would willingly share a bed with another man or play flight with one.

looby75

I don't want to worry you but my ex ran off with his "just friend" from work. And yes there were plenty of msm chats and texts which meant nothing and were just a laugh too.

Tell him in on uncertain terms you don't want him texting this woman and she is not welcome in your home. I wish I had kicked up more of a fuss.

SoozieSoo

mom23 wrote: »

Hi
She may turn out to look like the back end of a bus!!!:rotfl: and then you can put your mind at rest!!

Joking aside, many men are flattered to recieve any female attention. Even women who look like the back end of a bus sleep with married men.

poe.tuesday

I can not believe what I am reading here

nothing has happened between them, why on earth do some of you think that it will?

where's the trust gone?

inkie

It's not the faact that he has a female friend that would bother me - its the nature of the texting. I have a very good male friend (i'm female), and that is not a problem to my hubby.

poe.tuesday

SoozieSoo wrote: »

I would count sleeping in the same bed as someone and wrestling fights on the floor as "something happening". If my husband did either of these things with another women he would be out the door.

oh my god - it's just some fun, having play fights and bunking in the same bed together does not mean that you are going to have sex and certainly does not mean that anyone has been unfaithful or is going to.

Jealousy, insecurity and a massive lack of trust and respect seems apparent on this thread.

not all men think with their penis - have a bit more respect eh!

SoozieSoo

poe.tuesday wrote: »

I can not believe what I am reading here

nothing has happened between them, why on earth do some of you think that it will?

where's the trust gone?

I wouldn't trust a man who flirts with a female friend or a single woman who thinks it's ok to flirt with a married man.

As someone said earlier, flirting is foreplay. Why would you flirt with someone you don't want sex with?

Trust is important, but trust also means not crossing the line. To me, and the OP flirting is crossing the line and it is hurting her, so her husband shouldn't do it.

Curious_George_2

If your feeling insecure about it... then thats how you feel
and to be honest your husband should be more understanding of that,

like the others said, keep your eyes and ears open but i dont think there is any need to be as millitant as people like SoozieSoo,
sorry Sooz but men and women can be friends without anything happening and if your so untrusting that neither of you are allowed mates of the opposite sex then that probably says more about you than it does about the rest of us.

no man is interested in having affairs with every woman he gets on with.