meeting husbands female friend!

vik6525

aurora_borealis wrote: »

... I'd have killed him by now.

No such thing as a flirty friend. Sort it out woman!!

Oh no!!! Dont say that! Im my bessie mates flirty friend, but i wouldnt actually touch him with 2 shi*ty sticks!!!

lynzpower

why would anyone flirt with someone they dont fancy/ want to bed?

I dont understand- flirting is the first step in foreplay as far as Im concenred.

moodykerry

belfastgirl, that is how i feel, I am worried about becoming jealous insecure person.

izoomzoom, it is only her that I know of, he hasn't really done it before, which doesn't sond good really

skyrocket, i'm very sorry that happened too you, you sound very strong, hope it all goes well. I don't think I could of coped with that.

aurora borealis lol, don't think I haven't thought about it!

Glitzkiss

have you got any single male friends you could invite along to the bbq to introduce to her?

just a suggestion

Glitzkiss

aurora_borealis_2

vik6525 wrote: »

Oh no!!! Dont say that! Im my bessie mates flirty friend, but i wouldnt actually touch him with 2 shi*ty sticks!!!

I'm in the same situation - best mate, he flirts, I don't. When he tells me, nice top, nice hair etc. I just say, 'are you gay?'

A laydee should not engage :A

vik6525

lynzpower wrote: »

why would anyone flirt with someone they dont fancy/ want to bed?

I dont understand- flirting is the first step in foreplay as far as Im concenred.

Cause for me and the bessie mate, its a bit of harmless banter...

vik6525

aurora_borealis wrote: »

I'm in the same situation - best mate, he flirts, I don't. When he tells me, nice top, nice hair etc. I just say, 'are you gay?'

A laydee should not engage :A

Im not a lady though!!! I love a bit of cheeky banter me... Oh, hang on, maybe this is why im single!!!

Frugal_Fox

My husband is a friendly sort of person, he often gets text messages from his female collegues. At first I felt very, very threatened by this. My mother married twice - both to men who cheated on her. I had good reason to feel insecure - given my mum's history. However, nothing has gone on. Husband is still faithful, he still sends and receives messages from female collegues. I've met some of them - some are very tactile, some are flirty, all seem harmless and actually I feel my mind at rest now.

However - at the end of the day only YOU know your OH - we can all 'assume' what may or may not happen by our own views. I would say, go for it with a semi open mind. Then once the BBQ is over and the kids are in bed, take a long relaxing bath and play back the event slowly in your head. Were there signs that concern you? Is it all harmless? How did she react to you? If you have areas that you are worried about have a discussion with your husband. Remain factual and say how you feel. Remain calm and not acquasatory (sp?). Then after this see how you feel.

FF
x

PurpleDuck

I'd welcome her with open arms and make sure all her burgers and chicken legs were half cooked

seriously though - your other half is showing a terrible lack of understanding.

vik6525

In all seriousness.... Meet her, then you can see how they are together for yourself.