meeting husbands female friend!

tru

I'm just wondering if Kerry's OH's friend is a tomboy? And how flirty are the texts? Maybe the texts seem flirty because they're from a female, if the same thing was written by a male it might be seen as banter between friends :think:

I'm a right tomboy, if a bunch of us go out I say to mr tru "don't you DARE leave me with the girlie girls while you have a laugh". I just can't click with women who end up chatting about clothes, make-up and weight :rolleyes: You're more likely to find me drinking with the blokes, it's always a better laugh Maybe the friend is the same.

Having said that, if he knows it's upsetting you (justified or not) then he should stop. We're still here if you need to chat :grouphug:

Rachie_B

vik6525 wrote: »

Saucy... (oh heck, wait, I may get in trouble with the 'anti flirt' brigade again...

you trying to cause another argument ? :mad:

Think everyone needs to agree to disagree on this one lol

vik6525

Rachie_B wrote: »

you trying to cause another argument ? :mad:

Think everyone needs to agree to disagree on this one lol

Oh i was joking!!!!!!!!!!!:j :j

vik6525

tru wrote: »

I'm just wondering if Kerry's OH's friend is a tomboy? And how flirty are the texts? Maybe the texts seem flirty because they're from a female, if the same thing was written by a male it might be seen as banter between friends :think:

I'm a right tomboy, if a bunch of us go out I say to mr tru "don't you DARE leave me with the girlie girls while you have a laugh". I just can't click with women who end up chatting about clothes, make-up and weight :rolleyes: You're more likely to find me drinking with the blokes, it's always a better laugh Maybe the friend is the same.

Having said that, if he knows it's upsetting you (justified or not) then he should stop. We're still here if you need to chat :grouphug:

Yeah, thats me and all... I cant do 'make up clothes kids' on a night out... Thats why no one has ever seen me as a threat I think.. Im just a bloke in a womans body im sure!!

murphy61

vik6525 wrote: »

Yeah, its gone lighthearted again, and swung back to the op... I hate arguing with people on here, and I know sometimes i should let it lay, but i cant!! And now i feel dirty and ikky that ive had a big heated discussion in such a public forum...

Not at all... your views are as valid as anyone elses... and if you didn't care about the issue you wouldn't have spoken up. That's what makes this site interesting!

vik6525

murphy61 wrote: »

Not at all... your views are as valid as anyone elses... and if you didn't care about the issue you wouldn't have spoken up. That's what makes this site interesting!

I just feel a bit ikky letting myself get heated sometimes... and the fact that i was 'arf cut last night whilst posting doesnt help!!!

Avoriaz

SoozieSoo wrote: »

..Call me old fashioned, but I don't think opposite sex friend are appropriate when you are married...

How does that work then?

My wife is my best friend and she is the opposite sex to me.

Curious_George_2

Avoriaz wrote: »

How does that work then?

My wife is my best friend and she is the opposite sex to me.

ahhh.... now your just being difficult

Rachie_B

vik6525 wrote: »

Yeah, thats me and all... I cant do 'make up clothes kids' on a night out... Thats why no one has ever seen me as a threat I think.. Im just a bloke in a womans body im sure!!

:rotfl: that made me lol ! I know you were only joking above !

Now I can see why you suggested the venues you did on the Welsh meet thread :rotfl:

Pink_butterfly_3

Vik6526 - You sound exactly like me!

I've always got on better with men than with women. My friends as a kid were mostly male and it was the same when I got older. I would usually be the 1 female in a group of about 20 males! I find women (in big groups) can be particulary b*tchy and I really hate that. I like having a laugh, telling rude jokes and swearing (not very lady like i know!).

I remember one time a male friend was being particulary lewd and i reminded him that there were ladies present. His reply was 'Oh, your just a bloke with t1ts'. Thanks!

I would always be friends with the girfriends that came along and I can't think of any incident where I was percieved as a threat.

Since getting married and having a family, my and DH don't tend to socialise much so, i've got no-one to be jealous of, lol!

HOWEVER, if he started going on about a new female i'd never met and was sending and getting flirty text messages, then someone would be getting a smack upside their head.