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Boyfriend/husband and lap dancing clubs..???

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  • Person_one
    Person_one Posts: 28,884 Forumite
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    FATBALLZ wrote: »
    From a male perspective, I think given that you've been involved in a game involving some random blokes (presumably hard) knob you don't really have much cause to complain about him ogling a stripper. You're as bad as each other.

    Did you bother reading the thread before coming in to mansplain to us?
  • FATBALLZ
    FATBALLZ Posts: 5,146 Forumite
    Person_one wrote: »
    Did you bother reading the thread before coming in to mansplain to us?

    I thought I did, although I now realise I missed the bit asking for female opinions only on the OP. Feel free to ignore me if you'd prefer...
  • Person_one
    Person_one Posts: 28,884 Forumite
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    FATBALLZ wrote: »
    I thought I did, although I now realise I missed the bit asking for female opinions only on the OP. Feel free to ignore me if you'd prefer...


    No, it seems you missed the bit where the OP told us what happened with the male stripper in more detail. You know, that she didn't choose or want it, that she didn't interact with him at all, those tiny details that make it obvious the two situations are completely different.

    I also didn't see a single female poster announce that their opinion was 'from a female perspective' as though that would somehow make it more important! :rotfl:
  • inkie
    inkie Posts: 2,609 Forumite
    Mortgage-free Glee!
    In answer to the original question - no, I would not be happy.
  • snozberry
    snozberry Posts: 1,200 Forumite
    Person_one wrote: »
    You didn't, I don't actually have any raw nerves.

    really? lucky you.
  • Person_one
    Person_one Posts: 28,884 Forumite
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    snozberry wrote: »
    really? lucky you.

    It is quite nice, actually.
  • snozberry
    snozberry Posts: 1,200 Forumite
    Person_one wrote: »
    It is quite nice, actually.

    I also don't believe you and maintain my original opinion. But, whatever, today's news is tomorrows fish and chip wrappers.
  • Person_one
    Person_one Posts: 28,884 Forumite
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    edited 8 July 2012 at 11:56PM
    snozberry wrote: »
    I also don't believe you and maintain my original opinion. But, whatever, today's news is tomorrows fish and chip wrappers.

    Ok, you carry on thinking I'm insecure. About what exactly I've no idea but that's fine!

    (To be honest, if anything I have an over-abundance of self esteem, ask some of the other regular posters!)
  • carolan78
    carolan78 Posts: 993 Forumite
    I've not read the full thread but I wouldn't have an issue with it. If DH wants to waste his free cash by getting frustrated that's his choice :)
  • azzabazza
    azzabazza Posts: 1,072 Forumite
    Sorry, but no. MY DH went to a 'gogo' bar in the 70s which were all the rage (girls dancing on the bar, topless I think). A stag do. He came home twirling a bikini top which was the 'prize'. We had words!
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