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should I confront him and if so how?

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  • speckham wrote: »
    My husband and I have had the talk. There was no shouting or swearing as I am a non confrontational person. I woke up around 4am and was thinking about it all and he heard and felt me crying - asked what was wrong and it all came out. We ended up crying together as he was saying he didn't want to lose me and he didn't know why he did it.
    This is exactly what mine said to me but I know it hasn't stopped. I really hope that things work out better for you.
  • Errata
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    Wishing you well, but don't be fobbed off with he didn't know why he did it. He did it because it was exciting or pleasurable or a turn on or for some other reason. He's a human being and human beings behave in the way they do for a reason.
    .................:)....I'm smiling because I have no idea what's going on ...:)
  • Seanymph
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    You have also been together for 4 years and apparently he only stopped 8 months ago.
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