Grrrr Problems with OH over DMP

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Hi Sea
Hope you're having a better day today, it is a horrible time and like walking on eggs waiting to see what mood they're in today. Hopefully he'll come to his senses soon and realise what he's got to loose, if not you know you can make it! Take care.
love and hugs
IDA
xx

Bunnyinthelights

Sea,
I wish I was closer so I could pop by and just sit and have a chat with you.
I hope you're doing ok hunny,
Bunny x

maralum

Hi there sea, just a quickie to see if you're doing any better. Hope things seem brighter soon. Mara x

Sea78

JUst a little update - we were trying to sort it out a little, while also getting legal advice but it's all gone wrong. I've just had the worst weekend of my life - I won't go into it all here, but silly things were done by the both of us, I now feel sick all the time and jsut want him out, but until we have the solicitors stuff sorted he won't and I have to find £35000 to buy him out - will obviously be getting legal advice TOMORROW. No idea how I'll pay for that.

Can't concentrate on anything and feel nervous and on edge when he's around. Money through the window - trying not to spend, he's not giving me money, can't claim the benefits til he's gone from the house etc.

Hopefully this bad bit will pass once we've got the legal advice and he goes.

Wish me luck.


Sea xx

hypno06

Hi hun and sorry things are not going too well. Loads of virtual hugs will be coming your way this evening from your DFW friends x

Have you got chance to see a solicitor tomorrow or Tuesday - you really do need to get the ball rolling now in order to keep your sanity.

I will be thinking of you x

maralum

Wishing you well and hoping that things will start getting better soon. Take care and keep coming back, we're all here for you.

chunky79

Hope you don't mind me jumping in here.

i just want to send you big hugs. (())

I have read through the whole thread with tears in my eyes, your far from a failure if anything he is, he has failed to see what a fantasic wife he has.

It has brought back memories of my first marriage. Although its seems very tough now you can move on and be happy.

Just a quick question and feel free to tell me off if i am out of line. Do you not have any family you could move in with? Thats what i did, i had 2 kids at the time and lived with my parents almost rent free for 6 months which helped alot.

Sea78

chunky79 wrote: »

Just a quick question and feel free to tell me off if i am out of line. Do you not have any family you could move in with? Thats what i did, i had 2 kids at the time and lived with my parents almost rent free for 6 months which helped alot.

Hi
My mum lives in Leeds, about an hour and a half away so not possible for their childcare or my work for the time being. Also don't want to leave the house right now for a long time - will be getting advice by tuesday!

Thanks
Sea xx

hypno06

Stay strong, you WILL get through this x

smilealot

Sorry Sea, you're having an awful time of it. Massive hugs.

smile x x x