Sick of being taken the !!!! out of

LisaB85

Judith_W wrote: »

Hun, just to say things can look a lot more bleak if you're feeling really under the weather. I agree looking for any live-in job. Are you eligible for any job seekers benefits, TBH if you are, even though I can understand you not wanting to rely on them, you could save up for taxi to interviews and other costs that might make things easier to get out.

I get jobseekers allowance which is ok but doesn't go very far, I think my Nan would help if I couldn't get to an interview though.

LisaB85

Judith_W wrote: »

What would have happened with the compost lid if you had just said, 'I'm feeling really ill and you will have to wait until I feel better for me to get it off for you, otherwise you can try it again yourself'?

Just wondering whether being a bit less willing to do things might mean they start to rely on you less, or whether you would just be seen as a trouble-maker?

I'd be seen as a trouble maker and called selfish so it isn't worth it. I did refuse to take the hoover upstairs though as didn't fancy falling back down them, It is a heavy upright one.

LisaB85

meritaten wrote: »

you have pain in your chest and feel your heads going to explode? sweety, ring NHS direct for advice. chest pain is NEVER good! esp in a young person.
Please? to set my mind at rest - will you ring them now?
It may take a while for a call back from an NHS nurse if they are busy - but I am going to stay here until you post back! I am worried about you!

Going to call my friend he was a medic in the RAF so will be able to give me some advice, I had glandular fever last year which he was able to advise me on over the phone until I could get to the doctors.

Blackpool_Saver

Person_one wrote: »

I hate this kind of guilt tripping, not everybody has the same wonderful parents!

Did your dad stab people?

No, but my stepmother does and threw pans through windows, etc etc, she has bipolar and my poor Dad is terrified of her and not allowed to see anyone.

victory

LisaB85 wrote: »

I might aswell !!!!ing kill myself then as clearly I am as useless as my mother tells me I am. I

That is quite a powerful reply ring the samaritans if you feel honestly that bad

Person_one

Blackpool_Saver wrote: »

No, but my stepmother does and threw pans through windows, etc etc, she has bipolar and my poor Dad is terrified of her and not allowed to see anyone.

Ok, so what you're dealing with is a completely different situation than the OP, and while I feel for you its not really comparable or relevant, is it?

Some dads are lovely, some are awful, you don't have to be grateful for the awful ones just because they exist.

Blackpool_Saver

Person_one wrote: »

Ok, so what you're dealing with is a completely different situation than the OP, and while I feel for you its not really comparable or relevant, is it?

Some dads are lovely, some are awful, you don't have to be grateful for the awful ones just because they exist.

Indeed you don't, some parents are extremely toxic and you are best away from them. OP are you still there? You are not useless but you are clearly very unhappy, sending you hugs and strength, please stay on the line. Did you call the NHS line yet?

LisaB85

Blackpool_Saver wrote: »

Indeed you don't, some parents are extremely toxic and you are best away from then. OP are you still there? You are not useless but you are clearly very unhappy, sending you hugs and strength, please stay on the line. Did you call the NHS line yet?

Called my medic friend, he thinks it is my sinuses as I was very blocked up last night which would explain the headaches. I'm waiting for a call back from NHS but he thinks I should take paracetamol and make an appointment tomorrow.

He thinks the chest pain sounds more to do with me sleeping raised last night and might have a chesty cough as I'm not coughing anything up etc.

meritaten

OK Lisa - thanks!

LOL - that sounds very much like an illness thats been round my family for the last couple of months! Just take care of yourself - OK?

you say you couldnt find the thread - just go to forum search and type in Happyhaddock - Ive just tried that the thread does come up - I may have got the title wrong - missed out a word or something!

LisaB85

meritaten wrote: »

OK Lisa - thanks!

LOL - that sounds very much like an illness thats been round my family for the last couple of months! Just take care of yourself - OK?

you say you couldnt find the thread - just go to forum search and type in Happyhaddock - Ive just tried that the thread does come up - I may have got the title wrong - missed out a word or something!

Was about to mail you the same thing lol

Just had 2 friends post on my Facebook saying they have had a nasty cough too and apparently their is a lot of it going around at the moment x