Just received this - please help

Lotus-eater

Have you got a friend or sister you could invite round tonight to be with you and talk?

Doorstep_horror

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Lotus-eater wrote: »

Have you got a friend or sister you could invite round tonight to be with you and talk?

Unfortunately not, I'm in this on my own.

princessdreamer

Ok keep quiet for now, get a solicitors appointment for next week to find out where you stand. Get all the paperwork sorted so you know exactly what you have what you owe and such.

sharonfrancis

What a terrible situation for you! you poor thing! sending hugs!!

Make sure the other chap doesnt tell his "wife"?! that you are aware of things now. She could quite easily tip your husband off!!

Doorstep_horror

princessdreamer wrote: »

Ok keep quiet for now, get a solicitors appointment for next week to find out where you stand. Get all the paperwork sorted so you know exactly what you have what you owe and such.

I've already been doing this, I owe about £4000 but this has been spent on the family and I have a couple of quid in savings.

Doorstep_horror

sharonfrancis wrote: »

Make sure the other chap doesnt tell his "wife"?! that you are aware of things now. She could quite easily tip your husband off!!

I hadn't thought of that, maybe I should drop him a text and ask him no to say anything.

NickyBat

Doorstep_horror wrote: »

I hadn't thought of that, maybe I should drop him a text and ask him no to say anything.

Contact him straightaway

flutterby_lil

How old are the wee ones?

Doorstep_horror

I've sent him a text, my little ones are ds7 and dd4.

claire16c

I would start packing up your husbands stuff in bin liners ready for when he comes back. Keep it in a spare room or something if you dont want the kids to see it.

I would definitely see a solicitor in the mean time and get anything you might need in a folder, like financial info, kids passports etc.