Just received this - please help

choccyface2006

What a horrible thing to happen, Thinking of you x

Doorstep_horror

NickyBat wrote: »

Have you rang him back?

No, I sent a text asking him not to call and hang up on me, and that I was aware that he's working but that I needed to find out what's going on.

I know I should call him, but I'm in a bit of a mess at the moment, as I know they have to be local, and I'm feeling very paranoid at the moment.

How do you search a telephone number via google?

Tiddlywinks

Knowledge is power - get the information from the "informant" and then make up your own mind.

Is it credible? Is there stuff that is verifiable?

To be honest though, your OH has got "previous" and the fact that you half believe this already says a lot about your relationship.

Sometimes things happen for a reason and this letter may have done you a favour in allowing you to focus on the reaity of living with someone you cannot completely trust.

Plans_all_plans

Type the number in, press return and see what comes up. If it's just a mobile number (rather than a landline work number) then you're unlikely to find anything via google, unless he uses his mobile for work purposes.

Doorstep_horror

Plans_all_plans wrote: »

Type the number in, press return and see what comes up. If it's just a mobile number (rather than a landline work number) then you're unlikely to find anything via google, unless he uses his mobile for work purposes.

It's just a mobile number, didn't come up with any answers.

crazyguy

You can say I am wrong here but if you have indeed split up then what is the issue here as if he is seeing someone else and you are not together surely it is not your problem and I would be saying to the vendictive person who shoved the note through my door the same thing.

ailuro2

send him a text with the email address you use for spam.. or create one for just him on google mail.

It might be easier for him to type it all out - then of course you can mull it over before you decide to take action - if any.

clearingout

dont harass the man whilst he's at work. It'll just make things worse. He now knows you want to talk - if he has information, he'll let you know it later. If he's a wind up merchant trying to cause trouble, then he'll keep you hanging on and then you'll have to decide whether you tackle your husband or not.

dirtysexymonkey

Doorstep_horror wrote: »

Yes that right, but only been separated for about a week, and it was my doing as we'd grown apart.

so you split up with him? and made the decision of your own volition? so why do you care? more specifically why should you care? you dont want to be with him, so whats the point?

Doorstep_horror

I didn't call him back but he rung me, as far as I can tell he's telling the truth, it's been going on for about 3 months, and they are planning on buying a house together.

The other person has said that he has lots of documents and photos that he is willing to give to me to aid me in my divorce.

I have set up an email address and he is going to email me as much as he can and is also going to try and get some stuff on a memory stick for me.