Just received this - please help

gratefulforhelp_2

Doorstep, make sure you start a CSA case, even if you're doing private arrangement. Otherwise you will never see the CS if he doesn't do it.

BenjaG

My sympathy.

If I understand right you have already seperated. So calm down and wait for her call. It is preferable to allow her to discuss this issue away from her colleagues in a calm environment. Don't put pressure on her, it seems she wants to give you information, so let her talk and make notes.

Doorstep_horror

Gratefulforhelp - I am going to do it through the csa, I think some lovely people somewhere told me to. (lol)

NickyBat

Doorstep_horror wrote: »

Sassyblue thank you, I find I'm having the odd doubt about whether I'll do right by them.

Of course you will, your are their Mother and you have already shown you are putting them first............which is more than can be said for their father.

I for one think you are doing fab

Caroline_a

Hiya DH, glad to hear you're doing ok... working your way through just fine I reckon. The rest of us were probably gibbering wrecks at this stage of the breakup! Glad to see the DH Army is still supporting you too, although I'm a bit confused with BenjaG's post #593...:huh:

gratefulforhelp_2

Doorstep_horror wrote: »

Gratefulforhelp - I am going to do it through the csa, I think some lovely people somewhere told me to. (lol)

:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:You've kept your sense of humour, which is an achievement in it'self.

Now, is there anything you have always wanted to do, but never done because marriage and family stopped you?

lollyb84

Hi DH, been away for a couple of days, so not been able to get on here, but glad to hear you're doing OK. It's great news about the mortgage, and I'm glad you're going through the CSA for your private arrangement - better safe than sorry. You're absolutely doing right by your kids, I'm sure they'll be fine when things settle down a little.

The best revenge you can get is to live your life and be happy - so like grateful for help says, is there anything you've always wanted to do? Go out and do it! Be happy, live your life the way you want to, and keep your head held high. xx

sassyblue

Caroline_a wrote: »

Hiya DH, glad to hear you're doing ok... working your way through just fine I reckon. The rest of us were probably gibbering wrecks at this stage of the breakup! Glad to see the DH Army is still supporting you too, although I'm a bit confused with BenjaG's post #593...:huh:

Me too, perhaps she posted on the wrong thread?

doorstep, you'll do right by your kids, no-one loves them like their mum does besides l feel like l'm doing things wrong frequently and l don't have these awful things going on, it's normal to feel like that with kids l've found! xx

loopsntroops

Quote: Sassyblue: "doorstep, you'll do right by your kids, no-one loves them like their mum does besides l feel like l'm doing things wrong frequently and l don't have these awful things going on, it's normal to feel like that with kids l've found! xx "

Second that!

You sound like a great mum!!

Glad to hear things are looking up for you...onwards and upwards is the only way for it!! Keep coming on hear too....you have alot of genuine support...it just goes to show that there are some really nice people in this world you will take time out to try and help someone they have never even met...empathy is in no short supply here and thats refreshing to see!!

So so glad you and standing firm and defending your corner..just right too!!

sassyblue

loopsntroops wrote: »

Quote: Sassyblue: "doorstep, you'll do right by your kids, no-one loves them like their mum does besides l feel like l'm doing things wrong frequently and l don't have these awful things going on, it's normal to feel like that with kids l've found! xx "

Second that!

You sound like a great mum!!

Why thankyou! But l bet that's for doorstep really :rotfl::o