Just received this - please help

NickyBat

Thinking of you today, make sure you tell the solicitor EVERYTHING

jayII

Good luck Doorstep, I hope you get an excellent solicitor.

lizzielondon

DH if you think you might be nervous today and forget things why not print out lazy's post?

wannabehermit

Good luck with the solicitor. I want to add one more thing and I can't stress this enough. Tell your solicitor absolutely everything and PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE do as he/she says. They really will be acting in your best interests. Please don't dismiss the things that the solicitor says you should do because you don't want to rock the boat etc. You won't be acting with a clear head so let someone who is act for you. The solicitor will see everything in a clinical way and will suggest what is best for you and your children. You may not want to cause difficulties between you and your ex, you may want to keep things amicable and believe all he says about keeping your home over your head and paying for the children and I get it I really do but just let the solicitor do everything for you. I wish I'd had the advice and support you're having when I split with my ex. I may or may not have listened, who knows but if I could go back a few years I would do what my solicitor said instead of ignoring their advice.

All the best

gratefulforhelp_2

wannabehermit wrote: »

Good luck with the solicitor. I want to add one more thing and I can't stress this enough. Tell your solicitor absolutely everything and PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE do as he/she says. They really will be acting in your best interests. Please don't dismiss the things that the solicitor says you should do because you don't want to rock the boat etc. You won't be acting with a clear head so let someone who is act for you. The solicitor will see everything in a clinical way and will suggest what is best for you and your children. You may not want to cause difficulties between you and your ex, you may want to keep things amicable and believe all he says about keeping your home over your head and paying for the children and I get it I really do but just let the solicitor do everything for you. I wish I'd had the advice and support you're having when I split with my ex. I may or may not have listened, who knows but if I could go back a few years I would do what my solicitor said instead of ignoring their advice.

All the best

Just thought it worth highlighting.

Starrystarrynight

Hi, OP. Been following the thread since you first posted and just wanted to say I hope all goes ok with your solicitor and he gives you some sound advice. You have a lot of support here and people are thinking of you.

*Louise*

Good luck for today. let us know how you get on x

shelle2

Good luck doorstep... hope it goes well today and you get some really good advice.

MamaMoo_2

Hope you manage to get everything sorted today. thoughts are with you m'dear, stay strong x

loopsntroops

Well Doorstep...hope all went as well as could today for you x Be sure to post and let us know how it went and what course of action your solicitor is planning to take...a good solicitor can make a huge difference x

Take care x