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Just received this - please help

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  • Well I've received some stuff, what to do now.
  • NickyBat
    NickyBat Posts: 857 Forumite
    What have you received x
  • CH27
    CH27 Posts: 5,531 Forumite
    Well I've received some stuff, what to do now.

    What have you recieved?
    Does it prove an affair took place?
    Try to be a rainbow in someone's cloud.
  • lovecrafting
    lovecrafting Posts: 1,715 Forumite
    op your a more patient woman than me, i would be in so much trouble now because i would have cut his bits off and served them to the dog



    (disclaimer: altho this is not likley to happen, yes i mean it, yes he knows i mean it)
  • Two photos, a copy of a hotel receipt, and a copy of a chat log.
  • NickyBat
    NickyBat Posts: 857 Forumite
    Do they prove anything to you
  • Spendless
    Spendless Posts: 24,791 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper
    What's the date on the hotel receipt? Before you split or not?
  • Doorstep_horror
    Doorstep_horror Posts: 147 Forumite
    edited 12 October 2011 at 9:10PM
    Not to sure about photos, one looks a little posed iyswim, date on receipt was for back in september, so was chat log.

    Other photo was taken before end of July .
  • whitewing
    whitewing Posts: 11,852 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    You don't actually have to do anything just yet. Maybe acknowledge the email so the chap doesn't start contacting you again. Take a few days to process your feelings and thoughts, but do get copies of paperwork etc. Keep posting on here and think things through. No need to rush anything.
    :heartsmil When you find people who not only tolerate your quirks but celebrate them with glad cries of "Me too!" be sure to cherish them. Because these weirdos are your true family.
  • Kay_Peel
    Kay_Peel Posts: 1,672 Forumite
    Two photos, a copy of a hotel receipt, and a copy of a chat log.

    Is that it or did the man give you further details about their relationship? Has he already let the cat out of the bag by telling his wife that he has informed you of the affair? Did he say why he felt that you needed to know - what were his motives?

    I don't think you've got much time if the cuckolded husband intends to reveal that you now know of the affair.
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