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VestanPance

coin_operated_girl wrote: »

Well of course, I just meant that I think its perfectly possible to be happy being single and to have fun whilst looking for "the one"

I had the "the one" and have no intention of finding another "the one". I'm also not a big people person so random dating would drive me insane.

I tend to connect strongly with few, but develop long ties with those people. I have a small but strong collection of friends.

I wish you all the best in your dating adventures. It's certainly interesting reading.

Li0nhead

missmontana wrote: »

Its when you find your exes profile on there.... and you know its all absolute lies!

Yeah but they would not get far with a profile of:

"Hi,

Evil, spiteful, liar. Likes backstabbing and disappointing others.
Go on give me a chance, every moment spent with me will seem like an age.

Seeking doormat to walk all over. You must be able to put up with millions of my faults and always accept that you are wrong and i am right. Always.
Want to know more get in touch.
Yours, missmontana's ex."

Might be perfectly honest for them but it would never work.

lufcgirl

Well! After last night and the lovely girl online I thought I was making progress until we stopped talking and ten minutes later my ex (who I still believe is my 'one' hence me keep answering calls) was calling me again wanting 'closure' and driving me back to the same place I've been for over a month now. When I finally think I'm moving on I get these calls every few days, it's now time to stop answering.

Anyway, I'd posted previously about a girl I'd met a few weeks ago and she had helped me through my break up amazingly well. Even this morning after that call last night she was on the phone wanting to know all about it and trying to help me make sense of it all. So after the phone call ended, I asked her if she wanted to come up here (she's a two hour train ride away) to go sightseeing and to a friends house party that night. She said yes straight away and appears to be really really excited! So I have no idea if this is a date or not, I just thought she may enjoy meeting me and I know we won't get bored of things to say...but I'm strangely excited too! It's not until the 26th, but I'm already planning for it.

missmontana

Li0nhead wrote: »

Yeah but they would not get far with a profile of:

"Hi,

Evil, spiteful, liar. Likes backstabbing and disappointing others.
Go on give me a chance, every moment spent with me will seem like an age.

Seeking doormat to walk all over. You must be able to put up with millions of my faults and always accept that you are wrong and i am right. Always.
Want to know more get in touch.
Yours, missmontana's ex."

Might be perfectly honest for them but it would never work.

He wasn't one of those, he was a cheater... I did actually post a very truthful profile on POF stating exactly what he was like very shortly after I found out!

sapphireeye

Greeeat, just found the clingy guy that I dated from the gym who wouldn't let me get away, on a dating site. I spent ages avoiding that gym and the shop where he worked so I wouldn't have to bump into him and now he's on the same bloody dating site as me!! I'd quite like to not show up in his searches because I really don't want to end up going through all of it all over again but hopefully he's over it and he won't bother me. He may have already seen me but I hadn't seen him because he's the same age as me and I'd been doing searches for men that are a couple of years older than I am, but decided today to have a look at who else is about that's my age and I stumbled across him!

I haven't looked at his profile because I don't want to alert him to the fact that I'm on there but I bet he hasn't listed himself as clingy, over-sensitive and wears the skirt in the relationship ;-)

missmontana

I have a date tomorrow lunchtime, for coffee, maybe cake or lunch depending on how we get on and another for the weekend :T

Scotty1.7

Finally started talking to a really nice girl!!!

Hope it leads some were but so far just great to talk to some one

Tilly1810

I met my ex online, through a well-known motorsport website and chat forum, 12 years ago!

It can work and we're still friends now, and I would suggest looking at these sort of options as well as dating sites!

I met my best (male) friend through a BBC forum, and a really lovely local lad through a site I'd probably not mention...

What I'm saying is, don't restrict yourselves to dating sites, look at sites where you might have common interests!

Oh, and Vestanpants....I actually find you quite lovely and definitately not a weirdo!

There_Goes_Trouble

Scotty that's great!!

Sapphireeye is your clingy ex on PoF? If so pm me his user name and I'll tell you what he wrote about himself... hehehe!!

There_Goes_Trouble

missmontana good luck with your dates!!