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Butterfliesarepretty

Unfortunately for me I dont get many dates. I wont date smokers, men who are not independent (live with their parents), younger men, men who are teetotal and I dont fancy bald men either.

If I get a Hi from someone and no sentence sometimes I dont reply. If i get witty effort and it looks like the guy has thought about what he has put I reply.

If i get the immediate chat request from a stranger i dont accept it.

And when I do search i always find the same faces.:(

coin_operated_girl

missmontana wrote: »

That is a bit weird if you ask me... especially after one date... watch that one!

I think alcohol should be avoided at all costs for the first few dates, you never know what could happen/what sort of person you are meeting.
I always try to meet in the day for just a coffee or lunch first time round, much safer!

Ok, question... so you get past the 1st date, what do you do for the 2nd date? I have the day free on Sunday and the one from today is free so I said we'd do something, but what??? I'm so out of practice. Neither of us have transport, any suggestions?

Yeah he seems a little over keen (hes already asked if I want to do something on new years with him). Need to watch he doesn't border into creepy territory!

I agree it was a bit stupid of me to get so drunk with a complete stranger. You live and learn

I've got a second date on Sunday with the guy I met on mon. We are going to the zoo and he said he will make a picnic (this guy seems pretty sweet)- just an idea.

lufcgirl

Butterfliesarepretty wrote: »

Unfortunately for me I dont get many dates. I wont date smokers, men who are not independent (live with their parents), younger men, men who are teetotal and I dont fancy bald men either.

If I get a Hi from someone and no sentence sometimes I dont reply. If i get witty effort and it looks like the guy has thought about what he has put I reply.

If i get the immediate chat request from a stranger i dont accept it.

And when I do search i always find the same faces.:(

That's happened to me after two days of it! Maybe it's time to find a different website now? And why no men who are teetotal? I would like that, it shows some self restraint!

Butterfliesarepretty

lufcgirl wrote: »

That's happened to me after two days of it! Maybe it's time to find a different website now? And why no men who are teetotal? I would like that, it shows some self restraint!

I dont drink a lot but I would love to be able to relax with my man and a glass of wine, or whisky in scotland. I went out with a guy once who only drank juice. He was into karate etc spent over 6 hours in the gym. Was a total health freak. Im pretty healthy but I like to have a little drinkie now and again.

Its just nice for me. I hardly every get drunk so not really into hangovers etc.

missmontana

I would love to go to the zoo, but its miles away from where I live

If its nice we could go for a walk and do the pub thing.

Or I'd like the cinema, not very often I get to see grown up films!

I'm waiting to see what he comes up with...

coin_operated_girl

going for a walk and then a nice pub lunch sounds like a nice date to me

Scotty1.7

Well seems like the nice girl has decided to not reply- ah well.

So I'm back to looking

All the comments on POF arer right- but it has to happen at some point.

lufcgirl

Scotty1.7 wrote: »

Well seems like the nice girl has decided to not reply- ah well.

So I'm back to looking

All the comments on POF arer right- but it has to happen at some point.

Give it some time! She could just be busy or when she logs in it's on her mobile and she can't really write a reply on a mobile.

I'm sure if it's meant to be it will! Plenty of other girls on there, from what I've seen anyway.

Scotty1.7

lots of them- ones who reply, different story lol

I have given it time, she is sat there online and its was from a message last night for a reply

lufcgirl

Yes. However the girl I am talking to logs in a few times a day and then usually replies on the evening with one long message. She's online now and hasn't replied to my last one but it doesn't worry me. (She's even clicked on the thing that says she wants to meet me, that's a little sad!)

A girl I had been messaging and then I stopped because she was boring me messaged me again tonight and I replied trying to be nice, but nothing was there again for me. Maybe you should try sending a follow up message? Certainly got me to reply! Or try the chat thingy!