what are the best value dating sites?

newcook

gardenia101 wrote: »

Incidently - what would you do if you saw men (& women - I'm not sexist ) on sites who had posted they were single but you knew they weren't? Would you tell their partners?

Hmmmm, tricky one – I think if it was one of my best mates fellas on the website then I think I would but if it was just someone I knew I don’t think so (though if I was friendly with their best mate I might mention it casually to them – ‘sorry to hear about x & y splitting up’ ‘they haven’t’ ‘oh, I saw his profile on pof and just assumed they weren’t together anymore’.

memoryoftrees

To be fair it could be an old profile they didn't know how to take down or just forgot about. I had a plentyoffish profile I forgot about!

I had no luck with Internet dating either; it's easier to stay single! :T

wouldbeqaulitymoneysaver

I can't stop thinking of guy friend but I am angry enough to do this.

Scotty1.7

why are you angry wbqms?

newcook

memoryoftrees wrote: »

To be fair it could be an old profile they didn't know how to take down or just forgot about. I had a plentyoffish profile I forgot about!

I agree with the old profile thing but most dating sites will give an idea as to when they were last active - if the profile shows as 'user last online within the last 7 days' but your friend has been with him for a few months or longer, he's probably up to no good!

samuelthomson240

why does no one want to date me on pof advice needed or any dating site 42 single and no dates

newcook

samuelthomson240 wrote: »

why does no one want to date me on pof advice needed or any dating site 42 single and no dates

whats your username and Ill take a look at your profile if you like?

SailorSam

Scotty1.7 wrote: »

Hey you guys!!!


There are over 6 billion people on this world, and there must be someone for everyone.

And i sometimes feel i've written to every single one of them.

memoryoftrees

Haha, SailorSam, that did make me laugh!

I never get any interest either, or at least, any interest from men I'd also be interested in. I think there is a relatively small window for matching up with people - I think I've missed that unfortunately.

There_Goes_Trouble

Scotty1.7 wrote: »

There are over 6 billion people on this world, and there must be someone for everyone. The day it stops being worth it is the day we lose what makes us, well us - our ability to put our selves past our comfort zone and out on the edge for something we believe in.

I honestly don't believe that. It's not that it stops being worth it, I just refuse to waste any more time searching for something that isn't there and getting down and depressed about it. I'm a lot older than you Scotty, it's time to stop wanting what I can't have and enjoy what I've got.

I get down about being single, I have been for ages and yet the only things I have that keeps me going is words of encouragement from you guys and the one thought that if shrek can get it, even I can.

Don't give up, you're too young and most people in this world do meet someone. But it just isn't there for me and it's time to accept that and get on with life as it is.

Oh and don't start the whole "when you stop looking someone will come along" please anyone, I've been hearing it for the last 25 years (or more!) and I'm sick of it, along with all the other platitudes people come out with.

I'm done with it.