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zoesmummy_2006

girlybags THANKYOU!!!! you have just made me feel a little more confident for this weekend lol. I think im a little too 'hippy' curves wise lol, and boy would i love to be a bit taller-guess we're never happy with ourselves lol.

With regards to the keeness thing, i dont normally mind a guy being keen on me, its great and makes me feel good, but he was too full on, decided to watch all the twilight films cos he knew im into them, and was messaging me when i was ill saying he was worried cos he hadnt heard from me. I found that slighty scary and way to ott.

I have had a few 'OMG' messages from blokes but i just laugh and ignore lol. I have had an invite from a guy in the bahamas-says if im ever over there to look him up cos he'd love to meet me and we could have some fun.

girlybags

zoesmummy_2006 wrote: »

girlybags THANKYOU!!!! you have just made me feel a little more confident for this weekend lol. I think im a little too 'hippy' curves wise lol, and boy would i love to be a bit taller-guess we're never happy with ourselves lol.

You're welcome! If I was a bloke I'd defo go for curvy, hourglass women as opposed to thin ones. Personally I don't find skinny women as sexy - I'm not gay, honest :rotfl:

zoesmummy_2006

haha youve literally just made my day- was at kickboxing last night and had 2 lasses moaning at me for being a size 10 and curvy after 2 kids when they havent had any. I just see the bits i dont like and tend to dwell on them xx

girlybags

zoesmummy_2006 wrote: »

haha youve literally just made my day- was at kickboxing last night and had 2 lasses moaning at me for being a size 10 and curvy after 2 kids when they havent had any. I just see the bits i dont like and tend to dwell on them xx

Think we're all guilty of that. I don't think we often see ourselves as other people do either, I get comments about being slim but would love to lose a stone, I just concentrate on the wobbly bits rather than everything as a whole!

Just had a lovely message on OkCupid which said 'I want your feet and a***hole' - charmed I'm sure :cool:

zoesmummy_2006

OMG!!!!!!! I dont get them that bad haha-generally just 'nice tits' but given that you cant really miss mine in my pics I had expected those. I did have someone saying they'd just qualified as a masseause and offering me a free 'massage' LMAO.

girlybags

zoesmummy_2006 wrote: »

OMG!!!!!!! I dont get them that bad haha-generally just 'nice tits' but given that you cant really miss mine in my pics I had expected those. I did have someone saying they'd just qualified as a masseause and offering me a free 'massage' LMAO.

The feet and a***hole guy's profile seemed fairly normal as well, he's blocked now

A free massage would be great but I'm sure he had a lot more than massaging in mind :rotfl:

lara_412

Hi everyone, hope you're all okay.

I've been chatting to a guy on okcupid. At first he seemed quite "normal" then he suddenly got annoyed when I wouldn't tell him where I worked. I told him that I wouldn't say where I worked due to safety reasons. I then received a message saying that I was being paranoid and he wouldn't have turned up at my work place anyway.

He'd then constantly message me if I didn't reply within a certain amount of time. :mad: He'd accuse me of ignoring him. Argh, I don't sit on my computer all day, that's the reason why I didn't answer! :mad:

I suffer with a health issue and he took the mickey out of it. I found that highly disrespectful and told him this but he never apologised.

He also wouldn't send me any photos of himself (he only has one on his profile) and said he couldn't get any new photos. Hmm how strange.

smudger1964

lara_412 wrote: »

Hi everyone, hope you're all okay.

I've been chatting to a guy on okcupid. At first he seemed quite "normal" then he suddenly got annoyed when I wouldn't tell him where I worked. I told him that I wouldn't say where I worked due to safety reasons. I then received a message saying that I was being paranoid and he wouldn't have turned up at my work place anyway.

He'd then constantly message me if I didn't reply within a certain amount of time. :mad: He'd accuse me of ignoring him. Argh, I don't sit on my computer all day, that's the reason why I didn't answer! :mad:

I suffer with a health issue and he took the mickey out of it. I found that highly disrespectful and told him this but he never apologised.

He also wouldn't send me any photos of himself (he only has one on his profile) and said he couldn't get any new photos. Hmm how strange.

Christ he sounds sooo controlling

jellybabyjane

lara_412 wrote: »

Hi everyone, hope you're all okay.

I've been chatting to a guy on okcupid. At first he seemed quite "normal" then he suddenly got annoyed when I wouldn't tell him where I worked. I told him that I wouldn't say where I worked due to safety reasons. I then received a message saying that I was being paranoid and he wouldn't have turned up at my work place anyway.

He'd then constantly message me if I didn't reply within a certain amount of time. :mad: He'd accuse me of ignoring him. Argh, I don't sit on my computer all day, that's the reason why I didn't answer! :mad:

I suffer with a health issue and he took the mickey out of it. I found that highly disrespectful and told him this but he never apologised.

He also wouldn't send me any photos of himself (he only has one on his profile) and said he couldn't get any new photos. Hmm how strange.

He sounds quite unkind as well as clingy! Maybe a close escape finding out what he's like before you did tell him any personal info

How long does everyone feel you should exchange emails for before meeting up? I'm starting to wonder if I should take the initiative and suggest meeting...:o

lara_412

Hi, yes he does sound quite controlling/scary. I haven't give him any personal info at all. He only knows my name & the town I live in.

I did end communication with him thankfully.