Hubby is an @*rse

Tropez

Blossom24 wrote: »

Tbh that's why I don't use it - I don't care if you have just sat down with a glass of whatever to watch X Factor - that's doubly sad really! lol

I think if I ever did use it, I wouldn't be able to resist being obnoxious on it.

Regular updates such as "Tropez has just scratched his [ya know]... mmm, satisfying..."

"Tropez is watching The Sopranos and wondering how far he could go with Meadow before he got whacked."

"Tropez has discovered he isn't flexible enough to scratch his bum with his foot."

And so on...

FagAshLil

Honey, I got rid of my last ex after 18 months of marriage because he was snide, sneery and didn't like my dog! I don't know how you've put up with all of this nonsense without having a breakdown.

He's definitely picking a fight - you can't grow old with someone who isn't putting your feelings first. Your parents will understand - don't let money/property issues stop you from starting a new and better life.

crazyguy

Blossom24 wrote: »

OMG - it's you isn't it - you are my hubby!!! :eek:

I can assure that I am not your hubby as I dont cheat,

Bumpmakesfour

Have you thought about talking to your parents about the situation OP? I'm sure they'd be horrified to hear you were only sticking around and putting up with being treated like this to avoid housing issues for them xx

Blossom24

crazyguy wrote: »

I can assure that I am not your hubby as I dont cheat,

Got any friends who are like you then???

crazyguy

Blossom24 wrote: »

Got any friends who are like you then???

I am sorry to hear about your situation and do think you should consider getting out of it as I personaly think this guy wont change and will carry on treating you like dirt.

Its a big step to move on, but in a few years you will look back and say to yourself thank Fc uk I did that.

And there is only one of me in the world I am very unique,

RuthnJasper

Blossom24 wrote: »

Do you know the funny thing.....and this just shows how !!!!ed up I have been on and off, I called her once - I wanted to hear what she sounded like and boy - does she sound rough!

The thing with her is, I know that they are unfinished business - I knew that when he started talking about her the last time - he told me everything from the time they met to what happened etc etc etc - they have sort of been together twice and each time she has done the dirty on him - I think that is what grates on him and has done since then - it doesn't help me though

It just feels that everything in my life is falling apart - my daughter sometimes behaves like a spoilt brat, he is picking fault with how I treat her, he picks fault with me, he picks fault with our life (not doing anything etc) but I thought that work was my only constant thing - I then get told by my boss that there had been talk of getting in someone above me as I wasn't fulfilling the role that I should be doing - well, knocked for six is an under statement, however, my boss said that he was fighting my corner, because the reason why I wasn't fulfilling my potential is that I am self taught, have had no real support over the past years and my work load is crippling!

So, basically, with being over weight as well (although I have now joined a gym and not eating crap) my life felt like a pile of poo - I couldn't do anything right.

some may say that I am depressed - maybe I am, but I am determind not to let anything get to me - after the blow up re the weekend away, I said to hubby that I hate being so reliant on him (ie not wanting to lose him etc etc) so was going to get a F you attitude - which was working (up to a point) I just hate living in this atmosphere and walking on egg shells.

I am getting better living like this as I just ignore him too! lol

Blossom - you sound reassuringly normal to me! But hubby needs to do a serious bit of growing-up, I think.

Joining a gym sounds like a top idea, I'm sure it will help you feel a bit better inside AND out!

Do please consider something like Relate or similar before you throw in the towel for good. There must have been good stuff there before hubby starting behaving like a mid-life-crisis-type t*t and sending pictures of his "Little Soldier" to a sad old slapper. Just make sure that you're doing it for YOUR well-being (and your daughter's). Only you can know for sure what the right thing is - but if he's come back to you in the past then perhaps there's something in there worth salvaging - as long as he can accept that his present behaviour is unacceptable.

If he's half the man he thinks he is, he ought to show you some bl**dy RESPECT!

With love. xx

RuthnJasper

crazyguy wrote: »

And there is only one of me in the world I am very unique,

CG - oh, you DID have that operation in the end, then?! Well done you! Hope it all heals up nicely... :D;)

xx

crazyguy

RuthnJasper wrote: »

CG - oh, you DID have that operation in the end, then?! Well done you! Hope it all heals up nicely... :D;)

xx

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Cheeky Git,

RuthnJasper

crazyguy wrote: »

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Cheeky Git,

Don't rotfl too much - don't want the stitches to give... ;)

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