I'm sort of homeless. Need money NOW.

DCFC79

sukysue wrote: »

Well see I have to stick up for the op as I am of the firm belief that children are born to their parents and until the day they (parents) die it is our responsibility to help and guide our children.

is it not the sons responsibility to act like an adult when an dult and do various things when asked. I was doing all sorts of errands when i wasnt working, i was ding the usual dishwasher/washing but aso going to the shops for this or that, doing stuff like getting rid of the cardboard and plastic the council dont take. Put the bin and box each week, mow the lawn, i even walked to the shops to get the job paper and walk to the PO to post things.

sukysue

They don't provide his food , the op has to pay for his own , hence the garlic problem.

DCFC79

sukysue wrote: »

They don't provide his food , the op has to pay for his own , hence the garlic problem.

i provide my own food at times and ive not even been paid yet form work so im using my JSA money. We use garlic in food too but cant say ive noticed a garlic smell.

Butti

This is a quote from Martin;

• Please be nice to all MoneySavers : There's no such thing as a stupid question and, even if you disagree, courtesy helps.
• Please be sensitive : This may be a web forum, but you’re still talking to other human beings. Repeatedly or harshly saying someone’s wrong, especially on boards like DebtFreeWannabe, Bankruptcy or Benefits, can lead to upset.
  
  We’re proud that many people whose financial problems exacerbate mental health issues seek help in the forum, but this means you may be berating someone who’s clinically depressed. Please think twice before posting judgmental comments.

You may feel the way Vanille has posted his issue is an invite to give him a verbal kicking but you don't have to follow through. Suggestions, but gentle ones please.

sukysue

Yes the op should help in the home willingly but ......things have gone too far, at the moment it's a war zone.

LL30

Vanille - can I just ask what sort of support you are getting for your mental health problems? Do you have on going input? I'm a mental health worker (or was until I got made redundant, grr!) and it would seem that you are at a crisis point. Airing your issues on here seems to be aggravating you, rather than helping you and I'd urge you to seek support. I take it that they've done a full assessment of you as you have a diagnosis, but what coping strategies have you learnt? Unfortunately, and I know this is hard, it's down to you to learn coping mechanisms to help you integrate with society as much as you wish to do so. You seem to present some very Asperger/ASD traits, I'm just wondering if there's a dual diagnosis? Either way, you need some support, ranting on here is not helpful and in some ways will only affirm your current beliefs.

For other posters - honestly, he really, really will not get any of your points (sorry Vanille)

DCFC79

sukysue wrote: »

Yes the op should help in the home willingly but ......things have gone too far, at the moment it's a war zone.

i personnally would try to resolve the issues, complete his module, look for a job or whilst hes doing the module then consider moving out.

sukysue

DCFC79 wrote: »

i provide my own food at times and ive not even been paid yet form work so im using my JSA money. We use garlic in food too but cant say ive noticed a garlic smell.

Thats cos when you eat it you are oblivious to the offensive pervading stench of it to others. I DID SAY I HATED GARLIC btw !lol

DCFC79

sukysue wrote: »

Thats cos when you eat it you are oblivious to the offensive pervading stench of it to others. I DID SAY I HATED GARLIC btw !lol

other people eat it too and i dont smell it so there is no stench, id be able to know if the garlic on my breath was an issue for some people but it hasnt been an issue

sukysue

You must have a problem with your olfactory gland m'dear rofl.....