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At no point did the OP ever say the guy was her boyfriend. In fact she has quite consistently stated the opposite. The reference in post 25 was in the face of repeated insinuations that this guy must be a partner or boyfriend - eventually she stated that even if he was a boyfriend it wouldn't change anything. That's different from referring to him as a boyfriend.
Sounds like some people in this thread are suffering a little from the green-eyed monster. Bit unfair pouncing on the OP, whatever happened to
Poppy. I understood her to be claiming he was her boyfriend in that post... I hadn't prompted that whatsoever. The thread is one complete and utter fabrication which is why things like the claims of what the fraud hotline said are bizarre... not to mention different each time referenced. Jealousy is nonsensical.. at least from my perspective... I don't think that the Op is relaying anything much factual here... which is why people were wasting their time trying to advise... the issue probably doesn't exist and if it does exist then they already seemed to know the answer to it... they certainly haven't been interested in anyone answering it or the answers they got.
I always seem to be quick to defend people from abuse and false allegations and assumptions. But in this case there is no defence to make... they are grossly unbelievable because nothing much is adding up. I gave them a massive amount of flexibility and was civil... until it became impossible for my own reputation's sake to continue giving genuine responses to false testimony."Do not attribute to conspiracy what can adequately be explained by incompetence" - rogerblack0 -
Bizarre................thats all i'm saying0
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