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  • he pays me for my time obviously as they say time is money :-)
  • Emmzi
    Emmzi Posts: 8,658 Forumite
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    shanelm18 wrote: »
    he pays me for my time obviously as they say time is money :-)


    Ohhh webcam girl! Gotcha!

    Hope it doesn't involve a lot of saucy typing as nothing is a bigger turn off than poor punctuation and grammar.
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  • Emmzi wrote: »
    Ohhh webcam girl! Gotcha!

    Hope it doesn't involve a lot of saucy typing as nothing is a bigger turn off than poor punctuation and grammar.

    to you maybe but in the real world men love good looking women FACT you women just don't like to admit it because you cannot live up to something your not.
  • shanelm18
    shanelm18 Posts: 25 Forumite
    edited 15 September 2011 at 11:31PM
    Some men pay to love some women but most of us would rather not work in the sex trade or to have relationships with men who indulge. Most of us prefer to be independent and to have our own careers.


    i find it funny how you have to refer to the situation as an sex trade just because you've never come across anyone who would do something for YOU for nothing doesn't mean there ain't people out there like that. the possibilities are endless when men admire you and who said i am not on the way of having my own career in the near future? don't ever assume and don't be so small minded to think that situation's like this are not real because i am living proof!! you can't be that clued up about the world careers or not. oh and by the way say that to people like kimora lee simmons i'm sure she can buy your life with her pinky ring but we all know how she got her money in the end!!!
  • System
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    Why did you refer to him as your boyfriend on post #25?
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  • Why did you refer to him as your boyfriend on post #25?

    i was referring to what the previous person was saying about if he was my boyfriend so i was saying him being my boyfriend wouldn't change anything so his point wasn't valid either way.
  • Oh, just let the would be hooker alone to get on with her nasty little life!
  • anyway i got my answer from the government so i needn't explain myself anymore lol i feel special to think everyone thinks i'm lying though because my situation is one of a kind and even the government was shocked to hear the situation but i can prove everything i am saying is truth so that's all that matter's if it make's you guys sleep better at night think what you want but i'm going shopping tomorrow!!! :beer: xxx
  • Oh, just let the would be hooker alone to get on with her nasty little life!

    don't go to bed to late now you got to get up early for work!
  • SuziQ
    SuziQ Posts: 3,042 Forumite
    I think the info you got from your 'friend' is wrong, and if anyone reports you to the benefits agency, you will be in trouble. And trust me-I am not jealous of you at all. I had a wonderful career before I got cancer, and when I'm well I am determined to go back into that work. My kids are being raised to know you need to respect yourself and earn the things you want. Job satisfaction is maybe something you haven't experienced, but I can highly recommend it to you.

    As you pointed out-your gravy train could end anytime, you have no security. If this guy-if he really exists and isn't a figment of your fertile imagination- meets a genuine, loving woman who doesn't see him merely as an open wallet, he will drop you like a smelly sock. If he comes to his senses and realises how you have played him, he may not turn out as nice as you think-and if he were to act with no warning, not even your many brothers could help you.

    I hope you impart better morals in your children than you appear to hold yourself. Anyway, carry on enjoying your fantasy.
    Tomorrow is always fresh, with no mistakes in it!
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