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  • shanelm18 wrote: »
    WOW!!! you lot can really rake up a story can't you!! i can't believe people think this is completely a joke i feel quite special right now exactly what i said is what it is he is NOT my boyfriend i have no sexual relations with this man we obviously don't live together because he lives 5 hours away and the money he give's me is his choice i told him when he first started buying me stuff that he cannot buy me and just because he's giving me money doesn't mean he's going to get with me otherwise i would of had hundred's of mean treating me but he reacted different he stated himself "even if you got with another man i would be devastated but at least i know you got what you wanted" sorry girl's there ain't no drama here unfortunately.. i've got a friend to ring up and they said it's not a substantial amount of money so i'm in the clear back to shopping i go :-)

    I'm not raking up a story...lol. What you've said in the thread doesn't make sense or is inconsistent. Putting it simply.. I don't believe anything you'd said. You're the first person I will call a troll on the web... I tend to be extremely cautious as others may highlight... I tend to pull them for swift judgements... that's why I deliberately pulled you around some houses last night to highlight you were making things up as you went along. The thread from start to finish indicates you are not interested in the answer to the question you posed in the Op... after all the government has now answered it for you..lol.
    "Do not attribute to conspiracy what can adequately be explained by incompetence" - rogerblack
  • I'm not raking up a story...lol. What you've said in the thread doesn't make sense or is inconsistent. Putting it simply.. I don't believe anything you'd said. You're the first person I will call a troll on the web... I tend to be extremely cautious as others may highlight... I tend to pull them for swift judgements... that's why I deliberately pulled you around some houses last night to highlight you were making things up as you went along. The thread from start to finish indicates you are not interested in the answer to the question you posed in the Op... after all the government has now answered it for you..lol.

    no let's get it right you HOPE i'm making it up jealously is an ugly trait i'm telling you it will eat you up!
  • FOX_HOUND
    FOX_HOUND Posts: 2,480 Forumite
    edited 16 September 2011 at 2:23AM
    Oh, just let the would be hooker alone to get on with her nasty little life!

    Sounds like a bit of nastiness in that.

    But nothing unusual for you. As recent times have shown.
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  • .. some of us like to read stories at bedtime. You know.. like people calling the benefit fraud hotline about themselves to see if they're committing it... or was it someone in government that answered the call. I notice that your precarious financial stuation of page 1 that left you in a desperately difficult dilemma has now become the good life on page 3..lol. Perhaps we all need to start a thread like this.

    You want another inconsistency:


    why is it so hard for you to believe i'm getting money for nothing? lol i told him about the situation and he just laughed and said their just jealous but at the end of the day your special and you deserve to be treated like a princess whether you be mine or someone else's. as i said it's real and you can bring up these so called inconsistency's but when i said i'm not working, he's not living with me, we haven't had sex, i haven't got savings or inherited money and i haven't moved address i honestly am telling the truth i find it soo interesting how people really think i'm lying it's hardly millions isit!! :rotfl:
  • shanelm18 wrote: »
    why is it so hard for you to believe i'm getting money for nothing? lol i told him about the situation and he just laughed and said their just jealous but at the end of the day your special and you deserve to be treated like a princess whether you be mine or someone else's. as i said it's real and you can bring up these so called inconsistency's but when i said i'm not working, he's not living with me, we haven't had sex, i haven't got savings or inherited money and i haven't moved address i honestly am telling the truth i find it soo interesting how people really think i'm lying it's hardly millions isit!! :rotfl:

    The reason I think you're making everything up is because your story is changing under the slightest test of consistency and your emphasis throughout is not consistent with the Op. You're also using some forced parameters regarding your writing and you've used an unusual phrase that has not gone unnoticed from memory of same. In other words I also think you're not new here. The thread is nothing about seeking advice.. it's about seeking attention.. and that's why the story is evolving...lol... the latest being that the guy who gives you money for nothing who wasn't your boyfriend then was, now isn't... according to you is actually giving you money for a reason:
    shanelm18 wrote: »
    he pays me for my time obviously as they say time is money :-)
    "Do not attribute to conspiracy what can adequately be explained by incompetence" - rogerblack
  • Lady_gaga
    Lady_gaga Posts: 1,219 Forumite
    if he pays you for your time then your providing a "service" this would be classed as income and should be declared.
    but I'm sure you'll come back with some nonsense reply, if your such a princess and so special, why hasn't the father of your kid stuck around?
  • So the guy isn't a nanny then!

    Any other money hitting your account can be classed as fraud, regardless of what a web page states, not all the info will be given on the internet. It always states contact us for further information or if you are unsure!

    Also it has been said that the DWP trawl these sites to look for benefit cheats.

    I'm really glad I am not you.
    Wow, I got 3 *, when did that happen :j:T:p
    It is not illegal to open another persons mail unless you intend to commit fraud - this is frequently incorrectly posted:)
    I live in my head - I find it's safer there:p
  • SuziQ
    SuziQ Posts: 3,042 Forumite
    as i said we got information from the benefit fraud hotline so it's definite and if you read the thread properly i stated i am in the making of having a proper career. people are just bitter because life is good for some people. it's not my fault i attract good thing's and don't worry about my child he is very well behaved doe's well in school and get's love an attention like there's no tomorrow. you all sit there behind your computer's pointing the finger but at the end of the day that don't make you any better good people don't judge and i thought you all had careers? busy people don't have time to point out what's wrong in other people's life's there too busy living THEIR OWN!!!!!

    If you took your own advice, you would see that I am recovering from 3 lots of surgery from cancer, so yes I have time and my life is pretty good too-but I have self respect from not taking advantage of someone else. If you hadn't put your story on here we wouldn't be pointing any fingers-but that is actually what you want, isn't it? You say 'busy people don't have time to point out what is wrong with other people's lives', but neither do they have time to post provocative stories on the internet.You are obviously lonely and craving attention- any attention, even negative. Whatever you say about your son, they see far more than you realise - they are like little sponges, copying their 'significant adult' and I'm sure he knows EXACTLY what is going on, or will figure it out once he's a bit older.

    Why did you come on asking the question if you think you already know the answer? You said YOU called the hotline, or was it your friend? To be a good liar, you need a good memory you know. You say you have a good life but started the thread saying you were scared-
    can i get in trouble? im scared.

    not a good life from my vantage point!
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  • LadyMorticia
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    Why has my post been deleted when it wasn't even offensive or breaking any rules? *rolls eyes*
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  • System
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    Not read every word here but strikes me that ultimately Shanelm there will come a point where someone enters your life, or you find you want a job, and you will no longer want to do whatever it is you do with this man (even if that's just a bit of chat)... having paid you for your time he may then not wish you to stop and may very well 'turn nasty' if you do... simple enough for him to inform the tax office ( even 'gifts' have a limit!) and then you will be well and truly in deep trouble///with him, with the Tax office and with the DSS.
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