please help

make_me_wise

please_help wrote: »

Yes he is famous, he was fine before, so lovely and caring, but he has changed so much.

No one should live in fear of anyone. For him to threaten your son is despicable. As a famous sportsman, does he not go to training regularly?

Next time he is out the house and you are alone with your son grab him and leave. Do not worry about picking up any material things. Go to your friends or family.

So what if you are recognised and the reporters see you. If they do then tell them exactly why you are fleeing him and your home. Terrible press exposing someone in the public eye for what you are describing would be incredibly damaging to his career. He would not dare come after you if he felt the press were on his tail watching his every move.

When you are out of harms way, contact the police and have him charged. Dont even think twice about it. Otherwise he will make your life a misery. Also advise them that he has yours and the childs passports and you want them back.

yvonne13_2

From 8:40pm till now you have been on the net so clearly you have not been watched, so why haven't you taken your child and left?

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please_help wrote: »

But as it seems people either think I am a troll or its my own fault I will look for help else where.

Sorry, I don't mean to sound rude or harsh, however, I think this is a wind up. Those who have given advice on here aren't worried/upset if you say you'll find help somewhere else, it's not a threat anyone here is worried by, we'll just continue to post elsewhere and go on on our merry way.

If you are who you say you are and you really do need help, then I'm sorry for your siutation but you don't need people on here to continue to tell you to tell you what to do. You can get out and you will get out, especially with a small son. Follow the great advice you've been given here. If you can post on an internet site you have access to the internet - send an email to friends/famiily you trust, or even the police. And if this is real, don't waste time, contact woman's aid - details in the 2nd post.

If this is a wind up, you're sick and should be very ashamed of yourself. It's not funny to take advantage of other people and make light of domestic violence.

DUTR

Kimberley82 wrote: »

DUTR, domestic violence is never the victims fault

however that said in the case of this thread, I cannot accept all of the OP as genuine (and I don't mean that as an attack) there are too many holes eg not allowed a mobile and being constantly watched yet allowed time on MSE

make_me_wise

Is it just me who reckons its not to hard to work out who this is?

Kimberley82

DUTR wrote: »

however that said in the case of this thread, I cannot accept all of the OP as genuine (and I don't mean that as an attack) there are too many holes eg not allowed a mobile and being constantly watched yet allowed time on MSE

I dont know about this situation any more than you but even if this isnt true, there may be people reading this who are in abusive relationships and you are basically saying its her fault.

bagginslover

make_me_wise wrote: »

Is it just me who reckons its not to hard to work out who this is?

Who? I'm clueless!

DUTR

Kimberley82 wrote: »

I dont know about this situation any more than you but even if this isnt true, there may be people reading this who are in abusive relationships and you are basically saying its her fault.

No I'm not saying it's their fault (there are enough DUTR bashing threads gets a bit tiresome now ) if I was saying it is the victims fault then I would just say that and not beat about the bush, as a post above suggests if the thread is fabricated then shame on the OP.

yvonne13_2

make_me_wise wrote: »

Is it just me who reckons its not to hard to work out who this is?

Who is it?

thorsoak

Andy and flo at it again?????