please help

bagginslover

DUTR wrote: »

if he is so bad why are/were you with him in the 1st place?

She already said he has changed-probably from not being violent to being violent

You need to get out. Can you fabricate an invite to family when you know he cannot possibly come (training, big match etc)?

bagginslover

Also, don't worry about reporters etc, if they see you leave, so what? You have good reason, and he deserves to be exposed.

DUTR

please_help wrote: »

How do you know my son is not is danger? Would you take the risk with your child?

He never used to be like this, he was so amazing before when we were young and no one knew us.

Sometimes with these situations you have to be outside the box to have a clearer vision (logical) , if he is so concerned about his image outside then that is why the boy is not at risk. I suppose I do take that risk with my child, I don't see them so these silly women accusations can never be levied at me, if his issue is with you then it will remain with you, be honest now if you alone left, would he really come looking for you as where if you took the boy that would be more likely? Personally I do not think the boy is at any risk, is there no way you can resolve your issues? You cannot be argiung for no reason.
PS I'm not attacking you .

Morganarla

I smell a troll...

CountingPennies

bagginslover wrote: »

Also, don't worry about reporters etc, if they see you leave, so what? You have good reason, and he deserves to be exposed.

I'm with blagginslover! Let people find out what he is like! I hope you get out soon for both yours and your sons sake. I've been a victim of DV myself in the past for 5 years. Walking out was the hardest thing i have ever done, but also the BEST.

I hope you find the strength to leave him. But only YOU can make that decision.

Good luck and best wishes

xxx

please_help_2

DUTR wrote: »

Sometimes with these situations you have to be outside the box to have a clearer vision (logical) , if he is so concerned about his image outside then that is why the boy is not at risk. I suppose I do take that risk with my child, I don't see them so these silly women accusations can never be levied at me, if his issue is with you then it will remain with you, be honest now if you alone left, would he really come looking for you as where if you took the boy that would be more likely? Personally I do not think the boy is at any risk, is there no way you can resolve your issues? You cannot be argiung for no reason.
PS I'm not attacking you .

He can not stand for me to have friends, to talk to other people, I am not allowed my own mobile.

Dont think you know everything.

revpeachy

You have to think of yourself and your son. You do not deserve to live in fear nor be assaulted. You will have to look past any fear you have inside on what people say/think. It is you and your son first and foremost. IMO go to a refuge and not family (so you can get some breathing space) and then talk to the police.

I wish you strength.

DUTR

Morganarla wrote: »

I smell a troll...

I sort of do too, however there have been cases like this in the past and some fabricated ones too, although either party could have changed or both

CH27

please_help wrote: »

He can not stand for me to have friends, to talk to other people, I am not allowed my own mobile.

Dont think you know everything.

Are you ever alone?

thorsoak

If this thread is a valid thread, and not another troll, then my advice is GET OUT NOW, TAKE YOUR SON, AND TELL THE REPORTERS WHY YOU ARE GOING!

They will smell a different story, and believe you me, they will all be crawling over each other to help you and get a scoop.

You and your child deserve better. And if you are a troll - then you have a boring little life!