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  • DUTR
    DUTR Posts: 12,958 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper
    He can not stand for me to have friends, to talk to other people, I am not allowed my own mobile.

    Dont think you know everything.

    I don't think I know everything, I already said I'm not attacking you, if he is a rich good looking sportsman as you claim there will be 'queues' of women willing to take your place as his partner hence why I fear, you may feel you are in danger (hence leave) but the boy is not.
    You mention you are not allowed a mobile, yet you are allowed solo time on the internet ???
  • CH27 wrote: »
    Are you ever alone?

    very rarely,

    But as it seems people either think I am a troll or its my own fault I will look for help else where.
  • CH27
    CH27 Posts: 5,531 Forumite
    very rarely,

    But as it seems people either think I am a troll or its my own fault I will look for help else where.

    Who is with you when he trains or plays?
    Try to be a rainbow in someone's cloud.
  • CH27 wrote: »
    Who is with you when he trains or plays?

    staff, often his mum, his driver.
  • CH27
    CH27 Posts: 5,531 Forumite
    staff, often his mum, his driver.

    Do you take your son to playgroup? Or to visit family?
    Try to be a rainbow in someone's cloud.
  • CH27 wrote: »
    Do you take your son to playgroup? Or to visit family?

    not on my own any more

    He does not like our boy going to play group, he is very fussy who he mixes with.
  • DUTR
    DUTR Posts: 12,958 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper
    very rarely,

    But as it seems people either think I am a troll or its my own fault I will look for help else where.

    People have offered their opinion, whichever route you take will finally rest with you, read all the replies and decide from that, it is not the readers duty to offer the best help but you have had many suggestions some may appeal to you others may not, whether it be troll, own fault or as you describe, you have to make a descision there will be some feathers flying for a few days but things will soon settle, everybody has there own lives to concern themselves with which as you can understand will be be priority to them over and above what the tabloids are printing about whoever :o
  • CH27
    CH27 Posts: 5,531 Forumite
    not on my own any more

    He does not like our boy going to play group, he is very fussy who he mixes with.

    If you tried to take your son shopping what would happen?
    Try to be a rainbow in someone's cloud.
  • yvonne13_2
    yvonne13_2 Posts: 1,955 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    If he is watching you all the time how have you managed to send this message?
    It's better to regret something I did do than to regret something that I didn’t. :EasterBun
  • Kimberley82
    Kimberley82 Posts: 1,717 Forumite
    DUTR, domestic violence is never the victims fault
    Shut up woman get on my horse!!!
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