please help

LegalBlonde

What sport is it, I mean this as in recognisable locally or recognisable it will be on the front of the Sun if you go.

Do you not live near any of your family?

please_help_2

Gillyx wrote: »

What? They can't be everywhere unless you're Victoria Beckham. Even at that, these reporters aren't your husband. If you seriously fear for your own safety, go to the police. I'm pretty sure they can do something about the reporters too.

Not all the time no, but I never know when they will be

please_help_2

LegalBlonde wrote: »

What sport is it, I mean this as in recognisable locally or recognisable it will be on the front of the Sun if you go.

Do you not live near any of your family?

Would rather not say.

It would be big news, its my own fault for pushing myself into the limelight in the past.

No we dont live near any family.

CH27

Do you have time alone when he is playing/training for his sport?

LegalBlonde

How far away are your family, or your nearest close friend, as in you could go to see them as part of a normal day, and then maybe talk to them when you are there?

I am not sure what to suggest for you if this is how you feel about your situation.

Even if you had your passports you would feel the same, you sound like you feel trapped. Is there anywhere you go in a normal week or anyone you visit, that you could do so soon and then talk to them about it when you are there and get their help?

Gillyx

I would suggest you contact Womensaid, Refuge or something along those lines. You will be able to talk it through with people who help women every day. You won't have to say who you are, it will all be anonymous. I know it's hard to imagine, but there are people out there who care and will help you. What about your parents, are you close at all, could you even talk to them about it?

please_help_2

thanks will try them when I have time on my own

DUTR

please_help wrote: »

Because he has threaten my son but never actually hurt him.

Are you saying I should leave my son with him?

I wish he would he is obsessed with me, he has been since we were young.

Ok, I hear what you are saying, but it does sound like idle threats, don't take it wrong as Im not the most popular person on the board, I used to be into sports and UK finalist in what i done, my then GF had a child (not mine), occasionally we would have our 'fights' but in no way would the child be under any threat, more recently a recent GF turned out to be a bit of a drama queen and her youngest son was taken from her by the father and he won't even let her see the boy. What I'm saying is that when you 1st leave there maybe a bit of drama but the dust will soon settle as the next piece of news will come along and 'nobody' will really care what is going on in your world, you would not be the 1st to do so or the last. Obsession, bullying and lonliness are all tied up I understand. So if you cannot go to some mediation etc to resolve your home issues then leave, if he is so bad why are/were you with him in the 1st place?

please_help_2

DUTR wrote: »

Ok, I hear what you are saying, but it does sound like idle threats, don't take it wrong as Im not the most popular person on the board, I used to be into sports and UK finalist in what i done, my then GF had a child (not mine), occasionally we would have our 'fights' but in no way would the child be under any threat, more recently a recent GF turned out to be a bit of a drama queen and her youngest son was taken from her by the father and he won't even let her see the boy. What I'm saying is that when you 1st leave there maybe a bit of drama but the dust will soon settle as the next piece of news will come along and 'nobody' will really care what is going on in your world, you would not be the 1st to do so or the last. Obsession, bullying and lonliness are all tied up I understand. So if you cannot go to some mediation etc to resolve your home issues then leave, if he is so bad why are/were you with him in the 1st place?

How do you know my son is not is danger? Would you take the risk with your child?

He never used to be like this, he was so amazing before when we were young and no one knew us.

Gillyx

If you seriously suspect your son is in danger, you need to leave, no matter what it takes.