Trying for a Baby Part 7

Nicki

Very sorry it wasn't better news Aida. Take care of yourself over the next few days. It is a tough time emotionally, and your hormones being all over the shop doesn't help. xx

Primmer

Aida - so sorry for your news, sending hugs to you and your DH. Look after yourself and each other.

abis21

Hi Aida,

Sorry that this wasn't your forever baby, but I think in your heart you knew that prior to the phone call.

Its nice to have some closure on the matter tho and then you can draw a line under it and start again.

Hope you and DH are taking care of each other. Its ok to be sad and not always positive. We all have sad (and mad) days in this TTC journey. :A

Lol, super news that you are very fertile. :T:T

I do hope you realise that now none of us will believe a BFN even when AF arrives, and our POAS habits may be even worse from now on :rotfl:

skintchick

*creeps in*

Hi ladies. You may have noticed I've been lurking the last few days. I think I feel strong enough to come back.

I am CD30 today, 17DPO, Af is due by Sunday. I did test on Monday or Tuesday can;t remember which and got BFN, and this month didn;t end up sobbing, so that's good. I don;t think me made it this month but at least I had EWCM so I'm hopeful I'm back to normal for next month. That would of course mean a winter baby but I thnk I'm beyond caring about the seaon. I'll deal with PND when I get it, one step at a time.

Sorry not to do personals, there is too much to catch up on, but hugs for Aida especially.

Nicki

Yaaay, skintchick. Pleased to see you back and in a more positive frame of mind.

PND isn't a done deal, whatever time of year bubs comes out, and knowing you are at risk is 2/3 of the battle. I was sure I would get it after DS2, having had it so badly after DD and being so unwell when pregnant with DS2 (you probably remember what a mess I was for most of the pregnancy from when we were on the pregnancy thread together). But to my complete shock, and thanks to being hypervigilant and occasionally taking very short course of meds on a preventative basis during that first year after the birth, I was absolutely fine, even though DS2 was very poorly for the first 6 months and in and out of hospital, and DD was diagnosed with epilepsy towards the end of that period after several emergency admissions to hospital and massive seizures which started out of the blue, so by all reckonings it was a stressful year which should have knocked me for 6.

bigzippy

*delurk*

Sorry to hear that aida

Welcome back skint chick

*relurk*

Aida_2

Morning,

I finally had a good night sleep and I'm fine this morning. I cried just twice since I found out that about the pregnancy and I'm surprise how easy I accepted the situation. I'm an optimistic person but at the same time a realistic one and this week I found a new thing about me,.I'm stronger than I thought + fertile LOL.

So saying that, I will not take a break or anything else as I don't need one but I will order more OPK and pregnancy test .

Have a fab day!

Aida_2

abis21 wrote:

Lol, super news that you are very fertile. :T:T

I do hope you realise that now none of us will believe a BFN even when AF arrives, and our POAS habits may be even worse from now on :rotfl:

I know I created a precedent now . I will use hpt until OV LOL. Kidding! But I will test very day starting with 11DPO, plus the days when AF is present...just to be sure but I'm sure that it will never happen to me. Again, I'm optimistc. Hope.QQ doesn't mind me.testing so early and late. It will not be a pleasure as I hate hpt.They.are so mean!

mrshappy

sorry the news wasn't better for you Aida, you have amazing PMA, but remember it's okay to be sad as well. I had an early mc years ago and was fine at the time and fell pregnant straight away again, but it does play on my mind a bit sometimes, especially now I'm ttc again (and when my lovely teenager is playing up-I occasionaly think I could have had a completely different child, maybe even a girl)
Take care of yourself x

Nice to see you SD x

hope everyone is good, especially those having a hard time in RL just now xx

lemonmelon_2

(((((Hugs)))))) Aida, its not a nice call to get even if you know what they're going to say, hope you and your DH can look after each other and get lucky again soon that's a nice thing about being stronger than you thought

I'm back to work today and really dreading it but I don't think feeling sorry for myself at home all day is doing me any good so time to face the music