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Trying for a Baby Part 7

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  • TeamLowe
    TeamLowe Posts: 2,406 Forumite
    First time is very hard, big hugs to you
    Have you seen the great sperm race? It really helped me to understand how much to chance it still is even if you have sex at exactly the right time. It might sound mad but it made me feel like less of a failure or like we'd got it completely wrong x x
    Little Lowe born January 2014 at 36+6

    Completed on house September 2013

    Got Married April 2011
  • No I haven't but I'll look out for it. Thanks. For me, my OH has already had two children, one of which was on a one night stand, so I just find it hard to deal with that its not happening quickly,
  • QQuaver
    QQuaver Posts: 8,444 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Testing list

    Mon 9th Jan - Kavics
    Tue 10th Jan - cmills16
    Thu 12th Jan - Sirish1979
    Fri 20th Jan - Borokat
    Tue 24th Jan - Candycane
    Wed 25th Jan - Dundeediva
    Thu 26th Jan - Flee

    January graduates- Winner of Dec BFP predictions (10) Squirrels:T

    The Next Verse (28) TTC#2 since 06/11 BFP 03/01/12:j
    Elelyn (33) TTC#1 since 08/11 BFP 06/01/12:j
    emsbet (31) TTC#1 since 04/11 (2mcs) BFP 07/01/12:j
    kittycat1977 (34) TTC#1 since 10/11 BFP 09/01/12:j
    Kitten_pie TTC#1 since 12/11 (mc 10/11) BFP 10/01/12:j
    mishkanorman (31) TTC#3 since 05/11 BFP 13/01/12:j
    BargainPrincess TTC#2 since 01/12 BFP 17/01/12:j
    sexymouse* (28) TTC#1 since 04/11 BFP 19/01/12:j


    January BFP predictions

    Snowy - 7
    Sexymouse - 8
    QQuaver - 8
    Squ1rrels - 8
    TTC40 - 9
    Maire - 9
    GorkyPark - 9
    Birdie - 9
    Vesper - 10
    DefinitelyBlonde - 11 (ideally incl self)
    Kavics - 11
    Secretdebts - 12
    MrsJ28 - 12
    MrsHappy - 14
    AbFab - all
  • QQuaver
    QQuaver Posts: 8,444 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Team Sticky!

    CD? Tigerlilly - 76DPO :cool:
    CD75 Squ1rrel5 - 52DPO? :cool:
    CD31 Scottishchick27 - 16DPO :cool:
    CD30 GorkyPark - 15DPO :cool:
    CD94 mlbarrett - 14DPO :cool:
    CD54 Nephthys - 13DPO :cool:
    CD30 Borokat - 13DPO :cool:
    CD41 candycane - 13DPO :cool:
    CD29 AbFab - 13DPO :cool:
    CD25 Primmer* - 13DPO :cool:
    CD34 TeamLowe - 12DPO :cool:
    CD25 Bezzyk - 10DPO :cool:
    CD25 Flee - 9DPO :cool:
    CD28 vesper - 5DPO :cool:
    CD25 ikkle87 - 5DPO :cool:
    CD17 time2deal - 3DPO :cool:

    CD85 Candlewax - Awaiting ov :o
    CD76 morocha - Awaiting ov :o
    CD72 Picklepick - Awaiting ov :o
    CD71 Trying to become 3 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD67 isla_red - Awaiting ov :o
    CD60 pokey128 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD59 Secret debt girl - Awaiting ov :o
    CD59 Derby2 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD56 alamaya - Awaiting ov :o
    CD36 cmills - Awaiting ov :o
    CD30 mrs_dave - Awaiting ov :o
    CD29 penguin83 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD29 mssas - Awaiting ov :o
    CD28 Nephthys - Awaiting ov :o
    CD28 Birdie85 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD24 littleme - Awaiting ov :o
    CD23 Athina - Awaiting ov :o
    CD23 countrybum - Awaiting ov :o
    CD17 mrshappy - Awaiting ov :o
    CD17 moneypuddle - Awaiting ov :o
    CD16 Tea lover - Awaiting ov :o
    CD15 mrsj28 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD15 twigglet35 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD15 Gizmogiz* - Awaiting ov :o
    CD14 tinkwings - Awaiting ov :o
    CD14 LittleMoog - Awaiting ov :o
    CD13 Secretdebts - Awaiting ov :o
    CD13 trixietoes - Awaiting ov :o
    CD11 i love holidays - Awaiting ov :o
    CD11 scarly* - Awaiting ov :o
    CD11 QQuaver* - Awaiting ov :o
    CD11 Snowy - Awaiting ov :o
    CD10 skintchick - Awaiting ov :o
    CD10 Maire1 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD9 BargainPrincess - Awaiting ov :o
    CD9 Definitely Blonde - Awaiting ov :o
    CD9 Bigzippy* - Awaiting ov :o
    CD8 zcrat - Awaiting ov :o
    CD8 Portsmouthali - Awaiting ov :o
    CD8 claire16c - Awaiting ov :cool:
    CD7 Mintedby30 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD7 Rumfeeble - Awaiting ov :o
    CD5 Nicki - Awaiting ov :o
    CD5 TTC40 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD3 kavics17 -Awaiting ov :o
    CD3 2ba3c - Awaiting ov :o
    CD2 cleofish - Awaiting ov :o
    CD2 Gizmodo - Awaiting ov :o
    CD? dibdabb - Awaiting ov :o


    Those with * sometimes uses conceive plus/preseed.
    The names in blue has a link to their Fertility Friend chart:)
  • QQuaver
    QQuaver Posts: 8,444 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Hello everyone:wave:

    I've completely cut carbs out and am planning on drinking loads before the bloodtest in the hopes of diluting the LH result.

    Also, I was told to take 1/4 clomid tabs after dinner, but I'm taking it just before I go to bed in the hopes that empty stomach will make clomid stronger (nothing scientific:p Just that I had side effects of being dizzy when I took it on empty stomach few months ago).

    Even if it proves futile, at least I've done my best:o

    Littlezee, how are you? Glad your MIL is doing well:)
    :rotfl: at your DH asking a bloke for mooncup:p
    Femara was prescribed by FS, only for CD3-5.
    Euronorris, glad you had great parents when you had your mc (((hugs))).
    Squ1rrel, glad you will get to see a doctor soon:)
    TeamLowe, I've seen that cervix site too:o
    Primmer, (((hugs))). Good to know your DH wants a baby so badly:o
    Nicki, (((hugs))), hope you ov when your DH is back:o
    Gizmodo, (((hugs))) for AF
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    Sexymouse, glad they did the bloodtest. Hope it comes back that you have the immunity:) I assume they are checking for other things like rubella too?
    moneypuddle, you are not out yet until AF shows:o
    Remember one only has 30% chance of being pg every cycle if you timed it perfectly:cool:
    But I've had my finger up my fanny a million times and never felt like I'm anywhere near the top!
    This got to be the post of the month:rotfl:
  • another quickie - can you use canestan if you think there's even the tiniest chance of being pregnant? I think I have thrush now, just to make things worse
  • Nicki
    Nicki Posts: 8,166 Forumite
    Hi money puddle

    Where do you think you are in your cycle? QQ has you at CD17 with no ovulation detected yet. If that's right you should be fine to take Canesten. Even if you did ovulate but didn't notice, and have caught the egg, if it's really only 17 days since the first day of your last AF it would still be fine as the blasto won't have made it as far as your uterus yet, and you would still have no chance of getting a BFP at this point.

    If QQ's list is wrong, and you are around CD28, I personally would still use it with a BFN this morning, as it will be horrid to try and deal with AF and Canesten simultaneously, but as always with anything medical you should check with your pharmacist.
  • cleofish
    cleofish Posts: 357 Forumite
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    Morning all, so much to catch up on feels like ive been away for ages.


    Sexymouse- Regarding about the cough mixture, I see you said you took it from cd1, when do you stop it? Is it when you get a first positive on the opk just before ovulation? Or all the way through?


    Have never heard of slap cheek syndrome before, cant believe they are letting kids go to school that are contagious though. Hoping the blood test comes back to say your ok and immune.



    Maire1- sorry for your loss, hoping that the diabetes can be controlled well enough for you.


    Kavics17- sorry to hear things with you are still over the place, how did the docotors appoitnment go today?


    QQ- really sorry to hear from what they have said in the FS hoping that your levels come down and they might be able to save this month for you, really have my fingers crossed for you. Be careful though taking the drugs on an empty tummy just in case it makes you have an upset tummy.


    Bigzippy- I love your 'oh the drama' smileys it made me smile. Hoping the bleeding gets a bit better for you, my af this month has been the worst I can remember since I started my periods way way back, some of the pain has me doubled over and my hot water bottle has been my best friend!



    Also had huge clots as well, not sure if its anything left over from my mc in nov but I did have a d and c so cant see why it would be that or if its anything else, and I also would be lying if I thought perhaps I caught and now its coming out, especially being late with my af as well. Hoping that everything is having a good clean out down below all nice and ready and homly for the next month.


    Regarding moon cups, never seen them before, I have heard of them when I was younger and thought eww, but thinking about it now, since my molar and mc I dont like to use tampons, I like to keep an eye on how much blood and clots just in case, using pads is horrible even changing them regularly its like being in a nappy, so I think I might look into the mooncup options to see. Although the quote of it being like a plunger on your insides scares me! :eek:



    Im another one though that OH wouldnt get a mooncup for me either, I dont think he has ever heard of one before, and :rotfl: at the one in the dishwasher. Do they look obvious what they are for? Or could it hide in the dishwasher without anyone knowing?


    Fluffnutter- you made me laugh out loud with your comments, love the bit about the long fanny, thats something to tell people at a party. :rotfl:


    Primmer- sorry to hear you have been feeling upset, I feel the same way as you, I dont begrudge anyone having a baby, sure it hurts, but what hurts more is I just want a chance, it feels such a battle with me, first to get pregnant and then a battle just to keep it.


    Nicki- sending you hugs as well, look after yourself will be thinking of you.


    Moneypuddle- sorry to hear your down, what cd are you on now? perhaps its just too early yet dont give up yet.


    anyone got anything planned for the weekend? besides looking for your cervixs :rotfl:Im going to try and gets lots of walks and maybe mabye start ont he running machine, buts thats a bg maybe :)
  • QQuaver
    QQuaver Posts: 8,444 Forumite
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    cleofish wrote: »
    Be careful though taking the drugs on an empty tummy just in case it makes you have an upset tummy.
    It's a tiny tablet, how much damage can it do?:D:lipsrseal:eek:
  • hi nicki, yeah qq has my cycle day right. I don't know when I ovulate at all as I never notice any difference when I'm due to and didn't want to get too caught up on opks etc at the minute, so have tried to just be quite natural about it. Have just sent OH to the chemist to get me some cream so hopefully it will be sorted out soon :(
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