Trying for a Baby Part 7

squ1rrel5

Think I'm suffering the post Christmas blues - cant believe how long this cycle is going on for - no signs of OV on opks, no sign of AF even on CD 1 million or whattever it is now....
I just wish it would arrive so I can at least start tracking properly again.... I absolutely HATE not knowing what is going on with my body.

Few other bits and pieces going on at the moment that are just making me feel down.... actually looking forward to getting back to work like a complete saddo as at least it takes my mind off stuff while im there!!

I do enjoy being off but kind of dreading NYE - me and OH never do anything as we'd prefer to stay in - usually just get a bottle of champers in, nice food and enjoy each others company but this year I'm actually depressed by the thought of doing the same old thing - I've been feeling restless a lot lately - so many things I want but havent achieved, with TTC being top of the list!!

Can you have a mid-life crisis at 32?? :eek:

sexymouse

Hugs teaandcake and squirrel.

Primmer

Hugs Squirell - definitely think its this time if year. I love Christmas but hate new years eve, I always find it depressing and dwell on things that haven't happened for me. We are spending nye with dh's brother and family which will be a nice change.

claire16c

mrsj28 wrote: »

I should probably clarify... I usually have the chest of an eleven year old, and when I say 'big' boobs I mean that just before OV my boobs tend to swell up a bit (to the size of, say, the chest of a twelve year old...)!!!!! Coming off the pill made my boobs completely deflate!

Ah I see. Mine stay at the 11 year old stage permanently so Im jealous of the 12 year old stage you get to experience :rotfl:The pill didnt do anything for me in that dept either.

squ1rrel5 wrote: »

Think I'm suffering the post Christmas blues - cant believe how long this cycle is going on for - no signs of OV on opks, no sign of AF even on CD 1 million or whattever it is now....
I just wish it would arrive so I can at least start tracking properly again.... I absolutely HATE not knowing what is going on with my body.

Few other bits and pieces going on at the moment that are just making me feel down.... actually looking forward to getting back to work like a complete saddo as at least it takes my mind off stuff while im there!!

I do enjoy being off but kind of dreading NYE - me and OH never do anything as we'd prefer to stay in - usually just get a bottle of champers in, nice food and enjoy each others company but this year I'm actually depressed by the thought of doing the same old thing - I've been feeling restless a lot lately - so many things I want but havent achieved, with TTC being top of the list!!

Can you have a mid-life crisis at 32?? :eek:

I feel your pain. My cycles were fine after coming off the pill, got down to a normal length and now have gone really weird and its really annoying. Im not impressed. Im sick of doing opks, but at the same time I have to do them or I wont know when I ov - I am temping but all the bding is getting exhausting to be honest :rotfl:

The past two NYEs have been rather extravagant for us, last year we were in sydney as part of our travelling and the year before we stayed in a friends flat in New york, so this year its a night in on the sofa to save money. We did get asked out to a meal but it was £50 a person which I thought was rather expensive for somewhere local so didnt want to spend £100 on that, especially as my car needing something fixing last week. I think next year I want to go into London to watch the fireworks.

Kitten_Pie

teaandcakeordeath wrote: »

Hi QQ could you please take me off the list for now? I wish you all the very best of luck ttc. I don't know when or if we will start ttc again- am going through some pretty horrendous relationship problems at the moment which is devastating.

Good luck to you all, may you be showered with lots of baby dust for 2012.

((Hugs)) teaandcakeordeath, I hope that things get better for you.

Flee wrote: »

My OH is like a dog on heat. Feel mean depriving him but my body has been bleeding on and off for over a week and I was so worried about it all. So lucky he is considerate and does not demand it like my ex. Will be good when I finally come off AF though

Doesn't help that my boobs swell after OV either. I go up a size for a couple of weeks which is not good when they are big in first place. OH thinks it is his birthday around that time.

Ditto for both however I'm ovulating at the moment or was so he is getting all he wants but still like a dog on heat.:)

I am big chested to begin with, thankfully during pregnancy they didn't grow, I don't think they do a bigger size

squ1rrel5 wrote: »

Can you have a mid-life crisis at 32?? :eek:

My father did, got a new job house and wife. bit of a major crisis. Hope OH doesn't do the same as he is 32 on new years day. :eek:

NYE we have lots of crabbies again plus wine and beer, planning on having lots of drinks and non essential bding might even let him purchase something for the bd box

Flee_2

I had my mid-life crisis at 32 years old. Dumped my idiot of a husband, moved out with my kids and started a new happy life.

squ1rrel5

Wow 32 is obviously the time to do it!!!! Best get my crazy hat on then and decide what to do...
I already got rid of my idiot husband a few years ago, and I'd like to keep hold of my current OH - perhaps I'll make a list of other things I can do to make myself feel better!!!!

mokba43

WOW!!!!
Well, i do not know how this works, i have been a MSE addict for a couple of years, but, as it is, i only check the freebies, coupons and comps board!! ( i know, its naughty.....)
Anyone, my husband and i have been TTC since Oct/10.... and so far nada..... out of curiosity i had a look around if the forum had any help on saving for a baby and here i am!!!

I want to join in the fun!!! (...or not...in m case...)

I have been reading through some posts. I can identify myself so much with so many of of you! And id like to be able to talk to someone about what i go through everytime the pee sticks shows me its evil single line of doom....
BTW, im 32 too

vesper

TTC40 wrote: »

Anyone heard from Vesper - or have I missed a post? I thought we were expecting a Christmas test.

NO TTC40 you haven't missed a post. I've just not been very well over xmas. AF sure enough arrived on xmas day which was fun.
So CD5 here for me.

Kitten_Pie

mokba43 wrote: »

WOW!!!!
Well, i do not know how this works, i have been a MSE addict for a couple of years, but, as it is, i only check the freebies, coupons and comps board!! ( i know, its naughty.....)
Anyone, my husband and i have been TTC since Oct/10.... and so far nada..... out of curiosity i had a look around if the forum had any help on saving for a baby and here i am!!!

I want to join in the fun!!! (...or not...in m case...)

I have been reading through some posts. I can identify myself so much with so many of of you! And id like to be able to talk to someone about what i go through everytime the pee sticks shows me its evil single line of doom....
BTW, im 32 too

:wave: Hi and welcome Mokba.

I hope your stay is short but in the meantime we are all here to help bring the PMA.