Trying for a Baby Part 7

claire16c

I have the opposite problem. I have been trying to put on weight for the past few months and it just wont happen. So I hope I never need IVF because theyd probably say I didnt weigh enough. Ugh. My DH is worried that if I carry on eating the amount of food and junk I have been recently in a vain effort to put some on, Ill end up having a heart attack at 30 lol. I bought a Zumba dvd off amazon and I want to do some running as I do no exercise and feel very unhealthy about that, but thats hardly going to help.

I also now feel like AF is coming. Got that crampy kinda feeling. Really got no idea whats going on this cycle.

time2deal

actually - forget it. Post deleted.

Secretdebts

What's up time2deal?

Operation ov bd complete

Kitten_Pie

Hi All,

Sorry I have been lurking for a bit, not much to add. Hope today goes well QQ with the other egg and the current one matures.

I got a + on my OPK so CC/NYC is in full swing.

Lots of hugs to all those with low PMA for various reasons.

On the weight side of things, OH is a size 0 and can't put on weight where as I am completely not and struggle to lose weight. It can't be dependant on what we eat as we both eat the same and have opposite problems. I do try and build him up more with portion sizes too. :cool:

Secretdebts

Wonders where my partners in crime are recently ... There's been no world domination & no midnight baking for a while!! Hope you guys are ok? Xx

QQ can I go as 1dpo now?(Thursday). And is it too early to ss???

Kitten_Pie

Secretdebts wrote: »

Wonders where my partners in crime are recently ... There's been no world domination & no midnight baking for a while!! Hope you guys are ok? Xx

QQ can I go as 1dpo now?(Thursday). And is it too early to ss???

Lasagne tonight and cookies...

I am 1DPO i think and earlier was feeling myself up wondering if my (.)(.) felt different.

Secretdebts

Kitten_Pie wrote: »

Lasagne tonight and cookies...

I am 1DPO i think and earlier was feeling myself up wondering if my (.)(.) felt different.

Lmao. Mine haven't started growing yet but they did last cycle!! QQs gonna at us 2moro.

bigzippy

I've been away, staying with family so not been on other than to catch up, I don't have what it takes to do much more right now either, but just to pick up on nicki's post... You make some good points, and I appreciate where you're coming from, it's food for thought; however, it does seem to leave a bitter after thought that overweight women are irresponsible to ttc, or that any pregnancy conceived by an overweight woman will end in some kind of tragedy/that any previous tragedies were their "fault".:o I realise that it likely wasn't your intention at all Nicki, but I just wanted to balance the gloom with a happier thought that bigger ladies can and do have healthy babies every day -you have a right to feel your disappointment and your frustrations primmer/time2deal/ttc40/whoever, and to vent them here. We're not judging, just trying to help-all of us. I hope all you ladies find the solutions to your own individual situations quickly, and manage to implement them as painlessly as possible.:)

eta: btw, this post is IN NO WAY an attack on anyone, in any way;):)

:wave: to all, especially my night time warriors (trust you to pop up again when there's ss ing to do secrets )

TTC40

I take no personal offence at Nicki's comments.

I know that if I eat/ drink less & excercise more, I can lose weight.

What I don't know is that why, as an intelligent person who has control in other aspects of her life, I can't control the weight.

That said, I'm generally healthy. The usual coughs/ colds/ aches but only one day off sick in 5 years. I am far more healthy than many slim people.

We could debate about why people getting treatment for ill health continue to smoke - as far as I am aware we don't refuse treatment.

I have been slimmer in the past - hopefully the TTC will help me achieve the weight loss (and then put it on due to pregnancy).

Hope everyone is having fun on operation CC/ NYC.

Anyone heard from Vesper - or have I missed a post? I thought we were expecting a Christmas test.

emsbet

Don't think you've missed a post TTC40. I think she last posted just before Christmas saying she was getting AF type cramps and was hoping the witch wouldn't show on Christmas day.

xx