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Can an affair ever have a happy ending?

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  • nickyhutch
    nickyhutch Posts: 7,596 Forumite
    jayII wrote: »
    No silly, you're a woman. You get to kidnap, not to be kidnapped.

    You are naughty! ;)

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    Oops. Not into the kidnapping.
    ******** Never be a spectator of unfairness or stupidity *******
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  • jayII
    jayII Posts: 40,693 Forumite
    nickyhutch wrote: »
    Oops. Not into the kidnapping.

    I never thought you were, just joking around. :)
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  • we could throw them men in the cages instead
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  • Lotus-eater
    Lotus-eater Posts: 10,789 Forumite
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    we could throw them men in the cages instead
    Who's "them men", I hope you don't mean people like me? It was my life purpose to be outside cages, not in them :D
    Freedom is not worth having if it does not include the freedom to make mistakes.
  • nickyhutch wrote: »
    Me too. My lovely husband's only jobs are to empty the bins and to put the cardboard out on Friday (he doesn't manage either with any regularity, but I don't care :)).

    I know he would be soooooo easy to manipulate but I don't take advantage, because I can look after myself.

    My other half and I do roughly half each around the house. But he's far tidier than I am!
    ...much enquiry having been made concerning a gentleman, who had quitted a company where Johnson was, and no information being obtained; at last Johnson observed, that 'he did not care to speak ill of any man behind his back, but he believed the gentleman was an attorney'.
  • If I were in a cage for the next fortnight or so, OH could do all the packing etc for us to move house. Well, I couldn't! Bring it on.....
    ...much enquiry having been made concerning a gentleman, who had quitted a company where Johnson was, and no information being obtained; at last Johnson observed, that 'he did not care to speak ill of any man behind his back, but he believed the gentleman was an attorney'.
  • :rotfl:

    Not just any old sex though :D special persuading sex ;) Although I will be honest, for me with this partner, they are both the same :)

    Bless.
    Marker wrote: »
    Its Marker btw. If I wanted to be called Mark I would have opted for that username.

    OOh, snippy.
    Marker wrote: »
    Does your husband know you are asking randoms on an internet forum whether their c0cks will fit in USBs slots?! :eek:

    Oi! Lotus isn't a random.

    @ nickyhutch just asked about the children as Ithink it's easier to be fatalistic when you're not thinking about your childrens' Daddy leaving.

    Ultimately, I suppose, we all have to be fatalistic, since we may all at any time end up cuckolded.
    Please do not confuse me with other gratefulsforhelp. x
  • nickyhutch
    nickyhutch Posts: 7,596 Forumite
    Bless.



    OOh, snippy.



    Oi! Lotus isn't a random.

    @ nickyhutch just asked about the children as Ithink it's easier to be fatalistic when you're not thinking about your childrens' Daddy leaving.

    Ultimately, I suppose, we all have to be fatalistic, since we may all at any time end up cuckolded.

    Ah, I see. That makes sense, and I agree. I do have a son, though, who lives with us. He's 17 and he and OH have a wonderful relationship - they're more like brothers than steps. He'd be heartbroken if OH upped and left.
    ******** Never be a spectator of unfairness or stupidity *******
    "Always be calm and polite, and have the materials to make a bomb"
  • Lotus-eater
    Lotus-eater Posts: 10,789 Forumite
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    Ultimately, I suppose, we all have to be fatalistic, since we may all at any time end up cuckolded.
    Nope, only men can be cuckolded. Women are just plain cheated on, I think.
    In fact some men get off on it, so if a woman wants to keep her options open during a relationship, then find someone like that.
    Freedom is not worth having if it does not include the freedom to make mistakes.
  • victory
    victory Posts: 16,188 Forumite
    What does fatalistic mean?
    misspiggy wrote: »
    I'm sure you're an angel in disguise Victory :)
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