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Can an affair ever have a happy ending?

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  • wayneleon
    wayneleon Posts: 1 Newbie
    edited 12 October 2011 at 2:50PM
    I am a married man, going through a seperation at the moment. However, the woman I was seeing, four years ago, stopped me from doing something very very stupid to myself - as back then I simply lost the will to live because of the way my marriage was.

    I believe that people turn up in each others lives for a reason. I am a very strong believer in 'fate' and what will be will be. However, in the situation I have just read, I doubt very much whether he would leave his wife for you, as from what I have read, it sounds like he wants his cake and all the rest too?
  • Lotus-eater
    Lotus-eater Posts: 10,789 Forumite
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    POPPYOSCAR wrote: »
    Don't believe you!
    That's OK, people have believed worse :D
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  • victory
    victory Posts: 16,188 Forumite
    wayneleon wrote: »
    I am a married man, going through a seperation at the moment. However, the woman I was seeing, four years ago, stopped me from doing something very very stupid to myself - as back then I simply lost the will to live because of the way my marriage was.

    I believe that people turn up in each others lives for a reason. I am a very strong believer in 'fate' and what will be will be. However, in the situation I have just read, I doubt very much whether he would leave his wife for you, as from what I have read, it sounds like he wants his cake and all the rest too?

    Are you still together?
    misspiggy wrote: »
    I'm sure you're an angel in disguise Victory :)
  • POPPYOSCAR
    POPPYOSCAR Posts: 14,902 Forumite
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    wayneleon wrote: »
    I am a married man, going through a seperation at the moment. However, the woman I was seeing, four years ago, stopped me from doing something very very stupid to myself - as back then I simply lost the will to live because of the way my marriage was.

    I believe that people turn up in each others lives for a reason. I am a very strong believer in 'fate' and what will be will be. However, in the situation I have just read, I doubt very much whether he would leave his wife for you, as from what I have read, it sounds like he wants his cake and all the rest too?


    Sorry to hear that.

    I hope you are in a better place now emotionally.
  • euronorris
    euronorris Posts: 12,247 Forumite
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    POPPYOSCAR wrote: »
    No No NO not the dreaded ironing as well!!!!

    I freaking hate ironing! It is avoided at all costs in our house! :rotfl:

    Sometimes I don't know how OH can get away with his wrinkly shirts at work! But then, he does wear jeans with them, so I think they've accepted he's not the suit type person either.

    I prefer to buy clothes that require little to no ironing. Those that do get worn very infrequently.
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  • neverdespairgirl
    neverdespairgirl Posts: 16,501 Forumite
    lostinrates wrote: »
    oh yes, I prefer to think of it as a ''motion inclusive intensive steam aromatherapy zen experience''. Lit candle, something nice smelling in the iron, good music on, or a film and its one of the few times I'm truely warm in winter.


    I've never ironed. OH does all the ironing chez NDG (-:
    ...much enquiry having been made concerning a gentleman, who had quitted a company where Johnson was, and no information being obtained; at last Johnson observed, that 'he did not care to speak ill of any man behind his back, but he believed the gentleman was an attorney'.
  • Bogof_Babe
    Bogof_Babe Posts: 10,803 Forumite
    neverdespairgirl wrote: »
    I've never ironed. OH does all the ironing chez NDG (-:

    Has he got a brother? :rotfl:
    :D I haven't bogged off yet, and I ain't no babe :D

  • nickyhutch
    nickyhutch Posts: 7,596 Forumite
    Lotus-eater wrote: »
    Except Tuesday nights of course.
    POPPYOSCAR wrote: »
    That sounds interesting!!!!!

    That sounds very interesting!
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  • MrsAtobe
    MrsAtobe Posts: 1,404 Forumite
    Bogof_Babe wrote: »
    Has he got a brother? :rotfl:

    My Oh does all the ironing as well, and no, he doesn't have a brother. Yes, I know I am blessed:D.
    Good enough is good enough, and I am more than good enough!:j

    If all else fails, remember, keep calm and hug a spaniel!
  • MrsAtobe
    MrsAtobe Posts: 1,404 Forumite
    nickyhutch wrote: »
    That sounds very interesting!

    Please don't encourage him, the images in my head are bad enough as they are...:eek:
    Good enough is good enough, and I am more than good enough!:j

    If all else fails, remember, keep calm and hug a spaniel!
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