Can an affair ever have a happy ending?

euronorris

gratefulforhelp wrote: »

Desensitization, and that's a bit of a sweeping generalization.

You could be right there now.

OH's reaction is always 'Ahhh, perfect!' when it comes on, and mine is now 'Oh God, not this again. I've had enough of looking at t!ts and @rses dear!' (and everything else on that channel!:p).

Wouldn't bother me so much if the women weren't always about 10 times better looking than the guys. Where's the equality??? :rotfl:

gratefulforhelp_2

Um...good point...I think in general the blokes get employed for other assets or I guess other assets;)

Not sure if that applies to soft !!!!!! on telly:rotfl:

Lotus-eater

gratefulforhelp wrote: »

Dutch soft pron? I have to confess...no.

No, the Dutch as a people. Obviously your credentials are better than mine

euronorris

gratefulforhelp wrote: »

Um...good point...I think in general the blokes get employed for other assets or I guess other assets;)

Not sure if that applies to soft !!!!!! on telly:rotfl:

I suppose so, but I don't really care about the size of the asset.

This channel is not soft !!!!!!. It's full on !!!!!!, so yeah, it does apply.

Soft !!!!!! is shown in adverts after about 9pm each night. You know, all those 'call now to speak to sexy ladies' type adverts.

Lotus-eater

euronorris wrote: »

I suppose so, but I don't really care about the size of the asset.

This channel is not soft !!!!!!. It's full on !!!!!!, so yeah, it does apply.

Soft !!!!!! is shown in adverts after about 9pm each night. You know, all those 'call now to speak to sexy ladies' type adverts.

He leaves it on a full on !!!!!! channel all the time? :rotfl:

Maybe he's doing it to make you have a reaction sounds like something I'd do.

I always presumed you were married to a Dutch guy, but now I'm guessing not?

euronorris

Lotus-eater wrote: »

He leaves it on a full on !!!!!! channel all the time? :rotfl:

Maybe he's doing it to make you have a reaction sounds like something I'd do.

I always presumed you were married to a Dutch guy, but now I'm guessing not?

Yeah, but to be fair, I could turn it over at any point (I did yesterday as the English TV had stopped working), but I can't be bothered. Most of the time we watch the English TV anyway.

He just likes to have it there ready, as an option if I'm away, ill, or for a bit of shared fun.

No, he's an English guy. But he was living in Belgium when we met, and then moved here and eventually I joined him. Met him through a friend at work who knew him before he moved to Belgium. And we're not married. When we are finally in a position to buy, we will enter a 'registered partnership' here in NL (same legal rights as married couples), or if we return to UK then we will marry as I've refused to have kids with him in the UK without that basic protection for our family. Which he's happy to do, so long as it isn't a big do (hates being centre of attention), and that's fine by me too.

gratefulforhelp_2

I can't believe the filter let me type !!!!!! !!!!!! !!!!!!.

basketcase

Lotus-eater wrote: »

Umm, are you serious?

You are talking about a sex DVD right?

So your OH would watch and not be bothered? Seems a little odd.

:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

neverdespairgirl

Lotus-eater wrote: »

Umm, are you serious?

You are talking about a sex DVD right?

So your OH would watch and not be bothered? Seems a little odd.

No, certainly not!

I mean, if I were to be filmed when I'm not with OH, whether at work, or out with friends, he might be bored watching it, but not upset.

I don't say, "behave as I would if he were there", though, because I don't spend an hour giggling with my sisters if he is there.

neverdespairgirl

Lotus-eater wrote: »

So if she was flirting with someone else on a night out on a DVD, her OH wouldn't be bothered?

Still seems odd.

I don't flirt with other men on nights out, though. That's precisely what I mean, I think OH should always be not-upset with the way I behave, even if he were watching on CCTV!