heartbroken

coin_operated_girl

crazyguy wrote: »

Btw, love the name, coin operated girl think its class !

hehe, thanks!...i stole it from a weird song called coin operated boy.

Lotus-eater

lostinrates wrote: »

sex with different people is different, some times better, sometimes worse, mostly different and ...like everything else...what you get out of it is proportional to what you put in to it.

Oh....... LOL, too easy,

lostinrates wrote: »

I can already imagine the innuendo people are wanting to type...:o

Percy1983

Tete_en_l'Air wrote: »

Top of list of Things To Do: Find man like Percy!!

There is plenty of my breed around don't you worry.

lostinrates

Lotus-eater wrote: »

Oh....... LOL, too easy,

Funnily enough, my dear Lotophagus it was YOU I was expecting to reply to that

There is no right or wrong way to feel about exes (unless after a while its stopping you get on with life!). I think very fondly of my first serious ex and less so of the second (who though I didn't realise it at the time was abusive, dangerous and mean), afterwards a few male friends were keen to rough him up:eek:. I still don't really feel angry at him though (even though it was a painful and expensive separation) because I got myself into the situation with him its me I feel angry at if anyone, and even then not so much. I'm glad for the (wrong in all ways) relationship: it taught me a lot. And finaly convinced me that bad boys really aren't all they are cracked up to be. :cool:

I hated Eat, Pray Love, (teaching a grandmother to suck eggs maybe? Or just...self absorbed vanity and situation manipulation on the part of the author:o). But all that personal feeling aside perhaps you shpould read it?

Percy1983

lostinrates wrote: »

And finaly convinced me that bad boys really aren't all they are cracked up to be. :cool:

I found being a nice bloke was getting me nowhere in my early years (14-23) and I do remember often thinking why are all the women going out with such (insert bad names here) when there is a nice bloke sat here doing nothing.

I then found that as time went by my traits became more desirable to women and I had little problems getting dates etc, to which I finally met a women with enough sense (and a little insanity) to keep me.

Interestingly I have had ex's from my younger days contact me at later points, it seems my stableness was boring back then but is now wanted.

coin_operated_girl

lostinrates wrote: »

Funnily enough, my dear Lotophagus it was YOU I was expecting to reply to that

There is no right or wrong way to feel about exes (unless after a while its stopping you get on with life!). I think very fondly of my first serious ex and less so of the second (who though I didn't realise it at the time was abusive, dangerous and mean), afterwards a few male friends were keen to rough him up:eek:. I still don't really feel angry at him though (even though it was a painful and expensive separation) because I got myself into the situation with him its me I feel angry at if anyone, and even then not so much. I'm glad for the (wrong in all ways) relationship: it taught me a lot. And finaly convinced me that bad boys really aren't all they are cracked up to be. :cool:

I hated Eat, Pray Love, (teaching a grandmother to suck eggs maybe? Or just...self absorbed vanity and situation manipulation on the part of the author:o). But all that personal feeling aside perhaps you shpould read it?

I think thats the key; to take something from the relationship however good or bad it was and use it to help you grow.

When i my sister told me about that book i went out and bought it. Its sitting next to me as we speak, but im not really a big reader so i haven't actually opened it yet lol...instead i watched the film, it was rubbish. I will get around to reading the book at some point though (maybe).

Percy1983 wrote: »

I found being a nice bloke was getting me nowhere in my early years (14-23) and I do remember often thinking why are all the women going out with such (insert bad names here) when there is a nice bloke sat here doing nothing.

I then found that as time went by my traits became more desirable to women and I had little problems getting dates etc, to which I finally met a women with enough sense (and a little insanity) to keep me.

Interestingly I have had ex's from my younger days contact me at later points, it seems my stableness was boring back then but is now wanted.

Ive never been one for bad boys. I can't get my head around why people want to be in a relationship with someone who doesn't treat them particularly well. Funny how all the 'cool' ones at school usually end up being losers in real life. Nice guys (and girls) always win in the end

Lotus-eater

I'm trying to work out if I'm "nice boy" or a bad boy......

Percy1983

Lotus-eater wrote: »

I'm trying to work out if I'm "nice boy" or a bad boy......

I am a very nice boy, the kind inlaws love (yes my future inlaws love me).

I am also a very naughty boy, to which I won't tell the inlaws what I do to there daughter.

:rotfl:

coin_operated_girl

Lotus-eater wrote: »

I'm trying to work out if I'm "nice boy" or a bad boy......

Maybe you're neither. Maybe you're just a stud like Percy

coin_operated_girl

Percy1983 wrote: »

I am a very nice boy, the kind inlaws love (yes my future inlaws love me).

I am also a very naughty boy, to which I won't tell the inlaws what I do to there daughter.

:rotfl:

:rotfl::eek: