Done something really stupid in past - now its coming back to bite me - HELP!

scooby088

rumdiddlyum wrote: »

that is what i last said to paddys mum and she decided to carry it on with

another one who cant be bothered to read the posts

so sometimes i just think im a bit fed of of people saying exactly what they want to me so why shouldnt i reply back

and all you get is i cant think of anything else so ill say you cant spell do you know what no more posts from me because unless you post regularly and agree with everything said oh and spell correctly all the time you are not welcome

by the way that is not having a go at anyone it is just what i think
if i was saying it it would be in a calm voice its just my opinion

i wanted peoples opinions on my thread but all i got with that was you cant spell or do punctuation well i will not bother with this site anymore because most people on it are very nasty i thought the whole idea was to help each other out but its not its just to judge everyone

and yes i am nasty when people start on me because why should i sit back and take it

:wave: goodbye and thanks to the people who have been nice

I am affraid it does always come to people bringing up spelling and grammer, well sod them they are not worth being irate over. It amazes me how many times a thread gets hijacked from the original topic.

aliasojo

rumdiddlyum wrote: »

and yes i am nasty when people start on me because why should i sit back and take it

I'm not saying you should sit back and take it, just that maybe the way you retaliated wasn't all that helpful either?

Sorry if you feel you need to leave, I do actually get why you would feel like that. This place goes in cycles, sometimes it's all hearts and flowers, other times it's claws out and moany. I've often wondered if the moon's got anything to do with it.

Don't feel pushed out because of grammar. You've clearly taken some of it on board because your recent posts have got spaces and they are much easier to read. As long as you can get your point across then don't worry about anything else.

Just read the bloody thread properly. :rotfl: < banter.




I've turned into my Mum. :eek:

Blue_Monkey

How you doing OP?

euronorris

bigproblem wrote: »

I knew I would get some v negative responses to this thread, but I do feel some of u are being v harsh, no I should never have had the affair, no I shouldn't have kept seeing him after, and I especially shouldn't have stretched the truth with fiance about where I was going etc - I no all of that, and none of u can make me feel worse than I already do, I don't want to think of my fiance hurt and angery, or doing something to the other guy that lands him in trouble, nor do I want the other guy to end up in trouble with the police over something so easily sorted (and before anyone says it, no that doesn't mean I still care about him, it just means a police record will stay with him, and all over something he could just put a stop to.)

Do you really think I would play 2 guys deliberately so I can embarrass my family by calling off wedding at such a late date, and lose thousands of pounds too? (no I'm not concerned by the money, but why would I do that deliberately)

Anyway for those who care, I went to police earlier and they were quite helpful, they took his details and are going to go to his house and 'have a word' tonight, so we shall see what happens.

Some people have been harsh in their opinions, BUT...I think you needed that (maybe still do), in order to understand the part you have played in all of this. From your earlier posts, it suggested that you really didn't see what you had done to create the situation, as though it all 'just happened' to you, which isn't true.

You need to recognise the mistakes you made and when and where. To understand the reasons why they happened, so that you can ensure you don't repeat them.

If you don't do that, then it is very likely that this situation would happen again. And you don't want that, do you?