Done something really stupid in past - now its coming back to bite me - HELP!

Pollycat

Roxyfox wrote: »

We're both hijacking the thread now so it's not helpful to anyone.

Finally something we agree on. :cool:

End of my input to this thread unless the OP has anything else to tell us.

feelex

Hope your fiance is alright. I don't think I could find it in my heart to forgive my partner in that situation, and I know he couldn't forgive me. Our relationship is built on trust and the moment we feel we have to hide something from the other, I'm sure we'll begin questioning the integrity of our relationship.
If he does forgive you, you're a very lucky woman. Cherish him. If he doesn't, at least you can learn from this.
Let us know he's okay.
Hope the police have developed things further, too, and have begun to get through to that psycho.
Just spent the last half an hour reading through everything - am knackered now!

VestanPance

You betrayed your partner once by cheating on him, and continued to betray his trust by continuing your friendship with this person. The only thing you can do is tell him what you've done. Although if he has any sense he'll get away from someone who took the friendship of someone they hurt their partner with, over their relationship.

The only reason this so called "friend" has any power is he knows he's the 'dirty little secret' and that your partner finding out could break up the relationship. Your concern isn't stalking, it's being found out.

Sambucus_Nigra

VestanPance wrote: »

You betrayed your partner once by cheating on him, and continued to betray his trust by continuing your friendship with this person. The only thing you can do is tell him what you've done. Although if he has any sense he'll get away from someone who took the friendship of someone they hurt their partner with, over their relationship.

The only reason this so called "friend" has any power is he knows he's the 'dirty little secret' and that your partner finding out could break up the relationship. Your concern isn't stalking, it's being found out.

You didn't think that one through did you?

rumdiddlyum

paddy's_mum wrote: »

Oh, flippin' 'eck ... another one who

cant be doing with reading long posts all the way through:eek:

carry on why dont you people like u make me sick all high and mighty have you cheated on someone before for you to be so pro adultery couldnt read thewhoe post cause its pathetic

ps let roxyfox have her own thoughts no eveyone one is as gross as you:mad:

rumdiddlyum

ooo soz splet lods of tings wung fur u 2 pic mee up on

NickyBat

VestanPance wrote: »

You betrayed your partner once by cheating on him, and continued to betray his trust by continuing your friendship with this person. The only thing you can do is tell him what you've done. Although if he has any sense he'll get away from someone who took the friendship of someone they hurt their partner with, over their relationship.

The only reason this so called "friend" has any power is he knows he's the 'dirty little secret' and that your partner finding out could break up the relationship. Your concern isn't stalking, it's being found out.

She has already told her fiance and he left a while ago, although there has been some contact since.

paddy's_mum

rumdiddlyum wrote: »

for you to be so pro adultery

Oh, stop .. please ... I can't bear it any more. My sides ache from laughing so much :rotfl: :rotfl:


You carry on making as many ill-spelled insults and taunts as you like. Thay reflect only on yourself. Water off a duck's back and all that...

Perhaps if you could some day bring yourself to read threads properly, you will discover that my stance is far from 'pro adultery' but then, let's not let little things like truth and fact get in the way.

You've started my day off with the best laugh I've had all week so thank you ever so much and in return, I hope you have a nice day yourself.

aliasojo

C'mon rum, you really aren't being fair here and you're not doing yourself any favours. You're coming across really badly.

I know we all have our own opinions about things but I too did think some stuff on this thread just hadn't been read properly before folk posted their replies. There's no point in people offering advice if they haven't taken the time to read and understand all what's been said.

I know you've been pulled up a fair bit lately and are probably feeling a wee bit 'got at' but your replies are just pretty nasty and argumentative tbh.

Maybe step back a bit and reconsider what you write back?

Tell me to get lost if you like but you'll know from your other thread last night that I wasn't one for having a go at you, so I hope you see this post as a genuine effort to advise?

rumdiddlyum

rumdiddlyum wrote: »

but anyway:silenced: lets not argue :beer:

that is what i last said to paddys mum and she decided to carry it on with

another one who cant be bothered to read the posts

so sometimes i just think im a bit fed of of people saying exactly what they want to me so why shouldnt i reply back

and all you get is i cant think of anything else so ill say you cant spell do you know what no more posts from me because unless you post regularly and agree with everything said oh and spell correctly all the time you are not welcome

by the way that is not having a go at anyone it is just what i think
if i was saying it it would be in a calm voice its just my opinion

i wanted peoples opinions on my thread but all i got with that was you cant spell or do punctuation well i will not bother with this site anymore because most people on it are very nasty i thought the whole idea was to help each other out but its not its just to judge everyone

and yes i am nasty when people start on me because why should i sit back and take it

:wave: goodbye and thanks to the people who have been nice