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Daughter is pregnant - at 15!

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  • poppyfield19
    poppyfield19 Posts: 176 Forumite
    Thank you. :o

    Signing off now, thank you all again.
  • POPPYOSCAR
    POPPYOSCAR Posts: 14,902 Forumite
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    Rev wrote: »
    It's hard not to when you see people going out of their way to upset someone looking for advice on a sensitive matter.

    I know but it only spurs them on to post more as they are the kind of people who just don't care about anyone else or what they say, they just want a reaction and you give it to them.
  • POPPYOSCAR
    POPPYOSCAR Posts: 14,902 Forumite
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    The OP states she has limited contact with males both her age and older, so lets keep an open mind until we know otherwise.

    I agree. The constant speculation about an older man etc. must be very distressing for the OP.
  • Just spent an hour reading through this thread and couldn't leave without commenting.

    Poppyfield - you're doing great! You sound really supportive and just the type of mum a girl needs in this situation. Well done :) I hope you and your daughter work everything out. It can't be easy but you'll get through it. Keep strong!
  • Rikki
    Rikki Posts: 21,625 Forumite
    Thank you. :o

    Signing off now, thank you all again.

    I have followed this thread since the beginning but haven't had anything to add to the great advice you have received so far.

    Your being a wonderful Mum and in years to come you will be pleased with the way you've handled this situation. :)
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  • polejunkie
    polejunkie Posts: 177 Forumite
    Why are so many posters hell bent on trying to unmask the father as some sort of married 40year old sexual predator.
  • Stephb1986_2
    Stephb1986_2 Posts: 6,279 Forumite
    I've read through the whole thread I just wanted to say that you look like a good mum. I hope your daughter comes to the right decision for her.

    Good luck

    Steph xx
  • looby75
    looby75 Posts: 23,387 Forumite
    polejunkie wrote: »
    Why are so many posters hell bent on trying to unmask the father as some sort of married 40year old sexual predator.
    because sadly we live in an time where all men are seen as perverts and there is a peado round every corner according to the media :(

    There is a chance the father is someone in a position of power, but in all probability it's someone much closer to her own age.
  • Oldernotwiser
    Oldernotwiser Posts: 37,425 Forumite
    Gavin83 wrote: »
    I don't think there is any point in speculating who the father could be, it could be a whole host of people.

    That's not a very nice thing to say about a 15 year old girl!
  • As I said before stay strong for her.

    Find out how far along she is so both you & her know what options are available.

    Ask her outright how old the dad is, this is to put your mind at ease. Reasure her you will not contact him in anyway unless she wants you to.

    All our thoughts are with you & your daughter.

    Good luck
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