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Daughter is pregnant - at 15!

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  • poppyfield19
    poppyfield19 Posts: 176 Forumite
    I will try and think back to around that time.

    She has a small group of friends - 5 including her.

    None of them go to the club. It's for younger pupils, and she and another girl her age are there to help out more than anything.
  • POPPYOSCAR
    POPPYOSCAR Posts: 14,902 Forumite
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    Poppyoscar that's really the only times it could have been. She doesn't go and wander around the streets or anything, just to her friends house, or as I said, the school reading club. She walks to school herself and one night a week comes home, gets changed and goes to the reading club thing. Apart from that, there's no other time it could have been.


    It could all be quite innocent(IYSWIM) she may have met up with a boy and it all went a bit too far and she was just very unlucky.No good tormenting yourself until you know for sure.

    We have all been young, we have all done stupid things(I know I have) and been lucky for there not to have been consequences.
  • Welshdebtor
    Welshdebtor Posts: 628 Forumite
    Did you say she has a male friend she is close to?
    Here to learn and pass on my experiences.
    Had a total of £8200 of debt written off due to harassment during 2010 and 2012.
  • Rev
    Rev Posts: 3,171 Forumite
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    Tent wrote: »
    Yes, I do know that. Its hardly my fault she can't keep her knickers on is it ?

    Nasty little troll aren't you. I truly hope the OP is around to kick you in the face when you need help, or just make entirely inappropriate comments that make you feel like crap. Horrible mind you have there. Hope nobody leaves their kids with you.
    vax2002 wrote: »
    So the TRUTH is spam now, or "offensive", well it speaks volumes about the intelligence levied upon here.
    But lets be totally honest, the most offensive things you hear are usually true.
    To those who think an under-age child having Sex with a man is acceptable behaviour, well I just hope your neighbours never find out. You disgust me !

    I don't find you offensive, TBH, I just find your posts pointless.

    You seem to be here just to cause upset to the OP.

    Please point us to the part where the OP states the babies father is a MAN, not a boy her own age.

    There are those of us who have enough of a life of their own to not have to give a crap what the neighbours think.

    Unless you have something constructive to say. Why not just keep it shut?
    Sigless
  • poppyfield19
    poppyfield19 Posts: 176 Forumite
    Did you say she has a male friend she is close to?

    No, you are probably thinking of when I said she had a boyfriend a couple of years ago but it was unserious and they were really just friends. He doesn't live around here anymore.
  • POPPYOSCAR
    POPPYOSCAR Posts: 14,902 Forumite
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    Rev wrote: »
    Nasty little troll aren't you. I truly hope the OP is around to kick you in the face when you need help, or just make entirely inappropriate comments that make you feel like crap. Horrible mind you have there. Hope nobody leaves their kids with you.



    I don't find you offensive, TBH, I just find your posts pointless.

    You seem to be here just to cause upset to the OP.

    Please point us to the part where the OP states the babies father is a MAN, not a boy her own age.

    There are those of us who have enough of a life of their own to not have to give a crap what the neighbours think.

    Unless you have something constructive to say. Why not just keep it shut?


    Why oh why are people replying to these posts!!!!!!!!!!!!
  • RAS
    RAS Posts: 35,744 Forumite
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    None of them go to the club. It's for younger pupils, and she and another girl her age are there to help out more than anything.
    Who runs the club?
    If you've have not made a mistake, you've made nothing
  • Welshdebtor
    Welshdebtor Posts: 628 Forumite
    No, you are probably thinking of when I said she had a boyfriend a couple of years ago but it was unserious and they were really just friends. He doesn't live around here anymore.

    yeah that was it sorry.
    Here to learn and pass on my experiences.
    Had a total of £8200 of debt written off due to harassment during 2010 and 2012.
  • peachyprice
    peachyprice Posts: 22,346 Forumite
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    POPPYOSCAR wrote: »
    But surely the Op would know if she had been in a situation where she could possibly be on her own with an older person?

    She does not have to have a regular boyfriend on the scene - it could just be someone she sees at school or meets up with when she is staying at a friends house and they 'pop to the shops' for example.
    How many of us know exactly what our kids are up to 24/7?

    It would be very very unusual for a 15yo girl to keep quite to everyone about a boy her own age, she would at least have told her friend there was a boy she fancies, surely?

    She really doesn't sound like the kind of girl who wouold do it behind the bike shed with a random boy at school, girls like that usually have a reputation that everyone know about.

    It could just as easily be the shop keeper in the shop they may 'pop to' as a boy they meet on the way.
    Accept your past without regret, handle your present with confidence and face your future without fear
  • POPPYOSCAR
    POPPYOSCAR Posts: 14,902 Forumite
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    Poppyfield how is your daughter tonight, is she ok?
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